I started meeting up with this 33 year old fresh off the boat Chinese woman about three months ago that I met on a dating app (I'm 24). She texted me Friday that she had taken a pregnancy test and it came back positive. She got back from the doctor today and it turns out she's about 5 weeks along. Not really coming on here to ask "what do I do" because abortion goes against my moral compass, but rather just seeking general advice. I have a high paying and steady job (especially for my age), and I am planning on marrying her eventually, but would like to hear from some anons that might have some experience navigating this sort of thing. Thanks for the help.
General advice? Prepare your anus. You bout to get fucked boi. Marrying a woman you don't know with a kid you didn't intend at the bright old age of 24? Better brush up on them coping skills, hobbies, and whatever inner strength you have cause life is not about to be easy.
>>34968912bump
>>34968912>It's mine.Paternity test or fuck off.
>>34968929>fresh off the boatIt's not his kid.
I'm so fucking sorry
>>34969653>>34969657I plan on getting one once the kid is born ofc, but it's kind of pointless to discuss because obviously I'll just GTFO and get on with my life if the kid isn't mine
>>34968912A fresh new spy lol, you're gullible
>>34968912Lol retard
>>34968912Don't marry her. Don't be a low iq christcuck. Get a paternity test. If it's positive, you can pay the alimony.Don't invest parentally in mixed race "people".
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>>34970271She won't allow a paternity test.She'll scream and yell, "How dare you!!!! You just don't love me!!!!!! etc.", and gaslight the shit out of you like all women do. She'll take offense to even the suggestion that she's a lying whore (she is).
>>34970581>alimonyThey're not married, retard.It's child support (booze, cig, drug, and tattoo money) if it's his kid (it most likely isn't).
>>34968912It's not yours. Women just be manipulative.
You will be sued for child support regardless of paternity.
>>34968912>>34970601Spoke with her about a paternity test this morning, she was surprisingly cool about it and said we could get one once the baby was born. Obviously won't be putting my name on the birth certificate until then, and I told her that, she was fine with it too. Honestly I kind of feel for her, she seemed pretty ashamed when I spoke to her and wasn't combative at all which was surprising. Ofc, I realize she could be sympathy farming, but idk. Haven't spoken to her about getting married yet but that's more of an after-birth question anyway I think plus I don't know if she would even take me up on it. Anyway, thanks for reading my blog post. Call me gullible or whatever but I do think the kid is mine. I was raw dogging this girl for weeks like a dumbass, and we had been drinking beforehand quite a few of the times so there's a good chance I did bust inside of her at least once. Plus the dates line up pretty well, but idk, it's all a lot to think about.
>>34971283It's most likely your kid.If this is the type of Chinese woman I'm familiar with, you can probably set up a place for her, send her money nearly equivalent of what she'll get in child support and fuck off to bang mistresses. She won't mind if you go see the kid once in a while.
>>34971306Yeah maybe. If it were up to me we'd get married, not because I particularly GAF about her but I do care about the child and think they will need a present father and mother to grow up healthy and not become ER 2.0.
>>34971324Chinese parents don't do the American/euro child arrangement. They do put up with a lot more leniency on the father's part when it doesn't come to supporting the family financially.
>>34971283She'll change her tune the moment the kid is born. She's lying to get gibs and playing the long game.I've had two women try that shit with me.Learn from my experiences, kid.
I would have a lot of questions. Does the timeline make sense for you to be the father? Does she talk to other guys? Etc. a lot of immigrants to the USA want a baby or a marriage to help bolster their ability to stay in the USA . Yo need to figure out if you're really the dad and if she's using your seed for personal gain or if this really was an oopsy baby. If you trust her, then good luck have fun. Having kids earlier in life means you're much more able to be involved with grandkids. And staying up late with newborns sucks when you're pushing 35+ I wish I would have started a family even sooner
>>34971360Timeline makes sense honestly. From what I know about her personal life she is kind of a loner desu. She doesn't have a job and is a student at a local community college. I thought it was kind of weird at first, but I think it's a pretty typical way for Chinese people to get into the US. >using your seed for personal gain or if this really was an oopsy babyHonestly I think it's a bit of both. I don't think she planned on getting pregnant, nor do I think she explicitly wanted to get pregnant by me, but I also can see that this is at least somewhat advantageous to her, considering the situation
>>34971490I'm not saying don't get married. But you need to keep in mind it's a 40 year decision. If she's from the mainland ask what city her hukuo is in and if it's a nice place like Shanghai Beijing or shenzen maybe consider going to China with her at least once to get a feel for her family life situation. If you think she's being genuine, and that her presence makes your life better, then pursue her. Otherwise back off. Now is the time for feeling out a very difficult situation. And don't be afraid to paternity test the baby once born it's not difficult or that expensive. Not because you don't trust her, but to remove all possible doubt
>>34968912I don't know why adv is so racist today or why they want a paternity test this badly.If you didn't doubt her before and you do now I would suggest that you don't let the doubt's of the people here sway what you think about her.Secondly, if you do intend to get a paternity test, I recommend that you do it upfront, instead of behind her back once the child is born.Constantly worrying over her potential cheating and going out of your way for a paternity test is just going to make you think less of her regardless of whether she actually cheated.Atleast if you ask her directly, you won't be going behind her back and you get to hear her feelings about it.
>>34971519>I don't know why adv is so racist today or why they want a paternity test this badly.Because leftoid christcuck pests like you need to be put in their place occasionaly
>>34971568>leftoid>christcuckPick one
>>34968929>>34969653>>34969657>>34970601Bingo. You all got the point immediately and are the smartest people in this thread.
>>34968912Congrats anon!You have no way of differentiating whether this is a genuine development borne of mutual affection(the minority of cases), or if it was a calculated act made by a callous sociopathic monster that wants a green card(the majority of cases)Good luck finding out which scenario it was you impulsive fucking retard!
Women don't care about men. They will prioritize their children and fuck men over if they see fit. Wanna spread your seed? Give to a sperm bank.
>>34968912Call ICE
>>34971519>why would anyone with a brain demand a paternity test in an era where all women are lying whores and supporters of Lindsay Clancy.Kys, roastie>Everyone is racist for being skeptical of the Chinese.Most Chinese are con artists and running a scam. Stop pretending to be retarded.>Don't stealth a paternity test.Parernity tests should be automatic and mandatory.Gtgo with your evil manhating bullshit.
>>34968912Get the baby dna tested
>>34972363This. Chinese lie. Women lie. Chinese women lie as much as latrinas.
>>34972047This.
