>implying that playing mind games with a narcissist will help you in any way
>implying that the mind games themselves being played is retarded and a manipulative tactic
>the only winning move is not to play
>remove yourself from the situation entirely
>devalue your pride in victory over a narcissist - they will never lose by definition, your attempts at victory feed them

>>34969292
>How do kill a narcissist
By being unaffected by their bullshit. Deal with a narcissist the same way you deal with an annoying woman who's trying to pester you.

If you yell and scream and get angry, she has the satisfaction of knowing she got a rise out of you. On the other hand, nothing, and I mean NOTHING, cuts a woman/narcissist to their core like realizing they can't get a reaction out of you no matter what they do. Practice giving bored, uninterested, unenthusiastic responses to their shit. Flat-out ignoring, one-word responses, and casually acting like you don't hear/remember the things they do or say.

The absolute only winning move short of swift decisive violence is to completely cut off all of their access to you on every level and if you HAVE to have any kind of interaction with them you keep it real boring and give out no information whatsoever

>>34969300
>your attempts at victory feed them
Aint that the fuckin truth and im hella narcissist

>>34969292
>How do kill a narcissist
Ignore them

If you seek control rather than emancipation. Then you are the narcissist, and a very delusional one.

>>34969292
1/2
There are a few steps to "winning" against a narcissist in their own game. That is, if you consider your opponent losing to be the equivalent of you winning.
Firstly, become utterly indifferent to everything that they do. Or show the appearance of indifference as much as you possibly can.
If you show some form of emotion, even joy when your insults land successfully. They will perceive it as you caring about them in some form.
This is why it is not about winning, as you must suppress your emotions when dealing with them and there will be no happiness gained from victory in doing so.
Secondly, whenever you say anything negative about them, they will endlessly try to shift blame and defend themselves. If you try to fight against it, it shows that their opinion of the situation matters to you. You would be better off outright rejecting their argument without explanation, "You can shift the blame as much as you want it won't change anything." or ignoring it all together.
Thirdly, when the narcissist tries guilt tripping you or engages in narcissistic behaviour, dont question why they are doing it even rhetorically because you don't care about their reasoning.
Just say, "Stop trying to guilt trip me." If they make excuses say, "Stop making excuses, I don't want to hear it." Eventually you might to remove yourself from the conversation. But thats okay.
Finally, Narcissists are practically addicted to being soul sucking vampires, if you show that you are unaffected by their behaviors it will only make them want to try even harder. Which fits in with the plan of making them lose since we cannot act against them since that shows we care, we can only react and this gives us plenty of opportunities to do that.
You want to refrain from using vague names like "narcissist and egomaniac." this is like water off a ducks back to a narcissist since they do not see themselves as such.

>>34971635
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You must collect every failing in their life, whether it was that they got bad grades in highschool, their crush dumped them, they got cheated on, they have a low paying wage, they are ugly. It can be anything. Especially all of their poor behaviors, their attempts at manipulation and such. All of these things are like bullets to a narcissist because their personality disorder is caused by a deep rooted shame. The moment you have accumulated enough venom, and when they have chosen to attack you, that is the time to dig into them and break them down. And after all that, you tell them that they are a worthless failure, and whether they live or die, it doesn't make any difference to you.
Embarrassing them infront of others has a significant effect, but making them feel the ultimate indifference and shame is the true key to victory.

>>34969292
the narcissist does not care about you, you have to realize this. your attempts at breaking someone down like that are rooted in attempting to correct their behavior, trying to have them "wake up" and become normal again but they will not do that, ever (or at least most definitely not for as long as you are trying to fix them). a narcissist needs to be abandoned by everybody, lose all emotional support and victims they feed themselves from, and only then will there ever be a *chance* of the person actually changing. of course that is very unlikely because narcissists are masters at analyzing and enforcing social/power structures to keep people dependent on them and by extension keep around their narcissistic supply, so in reality they just never heal.
narcissism is like an error in the brain, a complete failure to establish normal relationships where the afflicted person starts using power instead of love to maintain social connections, especially with loved ones. as long as the victim can't leave then the narcissist feels satisfied, if you get emotionally invested then that is already a victory because it shows that you still care about the relationship and as such the narcissist is less likely to be abandoned, which is the thing that they actually fear most.
just like anons above said, you can try and ignore them, don't give them information, realize that they are deeply mentally disturbed and don't become affected by any of the many baits that they're going to be constantly trying to pull on you. only problem with that is that it's pretty much impossible, especially if it's someone who's known you for a long time and knows how to push your buttons well - eventually you will slip up and give them even more fuel to gaslight you with more which just keeps the cycle going.
really as sad as it is, the only option you have is to simply leave.