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I saw an attractive young black woman the other day in the mall and she had huge breasts and it put into perspective how unattractive I am

The women I'm actually into have plenty of options and I'm on the uglier side unfortunately

How can I make peace with this reality?
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>>34969689
It's like seeing a gigantic, 250-foot yacht.
Life is not equal even slightly. You gotta accept it and take what you can get from this life while you're here. Who knows who you will be in the next life. A millionaire, a hot guy, a poor guy in Sudan getting tortured by a tribal militia. Who fucking knows. Just live as yourself while you're here. In the next cycle, you will be someone else.
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>>34969957
there is no next cycle you copehead
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>>34969993
You are the one coping if you think they let you off at the end. It keeps going. It would be too easy if you only have to do this once.
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>>34969996
you are retarded and have no basis for that belief whatsoever its pure cope because it gives you hope for something more rather than what is
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>>34969689
change what you can change, accept what you cannot change

in your control:
confidence
fitness
job you do
level of education providing you are not impaired
where you live
friends you have
what you eat
what you think

Thinking about what you cant change makes you basically obsessed with it "but it sucks, but it cant change but it sucks but it cant " etc etc

You are like a runaway .exe . Looping and suffering and toiling away while not even doing one pushup, eating one better meal or investigating how you can make a side hustle.

The real problem is you get addicted to suffering. The media feeds it. The online world feeds it.
In the suffering pit - it sucks, but its warm - there are others there with you, and then you can mock those who climb even if you feel brave enough.

You should be doing everything you can to improve and lead with confidence, fashion, hygene, being a man in forms other than pretty face.

As a man you could be expressing yourself in million ways outside of just being handsome.
And just being handsome wont do much either if you are lacking in personality and people skills.

You could improve so much more its crazy.

Think about it, I seldom see 10/10 women with equally handsome dudes. Its always some weird potato head dudes.
I come from Balkan tho, so its normal hahahahaha girls here dont really do looks.

Height + looking like caveman with no fashion.

You just go live in ex Yu country. YOu would slay. Just remember to be conflict loving low IQ bravado filled simpleton.
You will clean up.
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>>34970041
>Its always some weird potato head dudes.
Yeah, because the handsome dudes don't settle down or don't have enough to settle down, mostly.
>Height + looking like caveman with no fashion.
What?

Anyway, good advice.
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>>34969689
Play video games and jerk off until the sexbots come out. Or do the self improovment and hope you can get women in several years.
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>>34970024
You're retarded if you don't believe in isekai or heaven. A better world is on the other side
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>>34971227
How can one reach heaven?
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>>34970024
He cannot prove the afterlife and you cannot disprove it. Your guess is as good as his.
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>>34969996
Who is they? Redpill me on reality



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