She became cold and distant a few weeks ago and I eventually found out it was because she was seeing someone else and wants to be with him instead. She even said we could still be friends but I couldn't think of anything worse.We'd been seeing each other for nearly a year, gone on so many dates, spent so much time together, planned on doing so much in the future and going places and now just... nothing.I still can't stop thinking about her and want to move on but I can't let go. I feel like it's destroying my mental health.
>>34970704
>>34970704You just feel the pain and it goes away eventually. Stop caring about feeling pain.
>>34970837It won't go away because I can't stop the thoughts
>>34971122
>>34971122The point is that it won't go away until you have experienced your quota of suffering. So stop trying to fight it.
>>34971145There is no end to this suffering. I'm still in contact with her too, I can see them happy together on her socials
>>34971163>There is no end to this suffering. Yeah there is, just wait for a few months.>I'm still in contact with her tooIt will continue as long as you still think you have a chance.
You won't forget, buy you can move on.
>>34971242I can't move on, I'm stuck in the past thinking what if things could have been different
>>34970704You need to hate her anon. You need to see her as something hostile and non-human. Use the hate to propel yourself and push harder at becoming a man she'll regret leaving. Then give your improved self to another woman you deem more deserving.
Use what you get for a valentine
Show up where she works with a giant bouquet of flowers. You can win her back. But you gotta fight for it.
>>34971363Things couldn't have turned out any other way. It just wasn't meant to be. The only way to move on is to erase every trace of her from your life and meet other girls until you connect with someone. There are plenty of women out there; there’s no reason to obsess over just one as time goes on.
