My 1.5 years old girlfriend is sweet, caring, funny, intelligent and genuinely loves me, but she really struggles with her finances. She's trying to educate herself to find a better job, but the job market right now is fucked and she just doesnt make enough money to survive well. Her family is not 100% of a screw up, but she cant count on them for finances. As for me, i do well in life, i have money to survive and i help her somewhat with some money, but it makes me sad to see her so down and struggling so hard.I genuinely love her with all my heart, but this is kinda affecting me too. I don't care about money and im not worrying about having to pay stuff for her, i just really want to see her happy and seeing her like this makes me depressed.She's not really a depressive mess, she's trying, she's always looking for work and has the right attitude to keep looking for better work, but man it really hurts to see her like this. Time to time she cries and reaches out to me when she feels stressed and sad.And i don't know what to do. What can i do other than be there for her to cheer her up and help her with some money? (at most is like 50 USD, its not big deal)
>>34970851keep her as a cumdump until you get another cumdump.
>>34970851your girlfriend is a toddler you sick fuck
>>34970921I think he means his relationship has been going on for 1.5 years... I fucking hope so
>>34970930>>34970921yeah yeah really funnymy 1.5 years relationship girlfriend i meant, not old
>>34970851Why don't you just let her be a NEET?
>>34970930kek
>>34970915fucking disgusting, incels like u should stay virgins til death. If u see women as merely cum dumps you’ll never find love, or maybe ur just a fag.
>>34971035because while i do love her, i want us to build a future TOGETHER, not just me for us two.We need both the extra money
>>34971307You said you do well. Why lie?
>>34971303
if you marry her and have kids she'll be most happy.
Odds are she will probably find a better job in time if she keeps trying.I would say to support and be there for her emotionally. Don't think of her as a loser, that's a bad way of framing things. You're priming yourself to be resentful towards her by thinking that way. She's putting in the effort and continuing despite getting fucked over by shitty circumstances, that's not exactly loser behavior.Are you guys living together and splitting finances smartly? What kind of education is she getting, is it something that will have a meaningful payoff?
>>34971362>Don't think of her as a loseryou know what, you are right. I dont know what came to me.>Are you guys living together and splitting finances smartly?Not yet, we were planning on renting an apartment together next year and she could help me with some money, and that would actually be a smart choice >What kind of education is she gettingJust postgraduate courses and diplomas>is it something that will have a meaningful payoff?Yes, in a field that could pay well
>>34970851ive never met or heard of a woman that is good with money.
