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>dating girl
>she wants to marry me
>her bodycount is like 5 before me
>probably the best I could realistically find, virgins are too rare
>it still disgusts me and makes me feel like a cuck to even consider committing to a girl that other men have fucked
How the fuck do "normies" deal with this feeling?
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>>34970964
Cheat on the side.
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>>34970964
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>>34970964
>How the fuck do "normies" deal with this feeling?
Normies don't *deal* with this feeling, they simply don't *have* this feeling, so there's nothing to deal with.
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Same issue here but i’m the girl. He has a body count of 4 but says he wants to marry me. I feel gross when i think of all the girls he’s been with, even though he says i’m perfect in every way and have an unreal body. I’m technically a virgin too

We suffer from retroactive jealousy, op.
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>>34970964
>>You know what they say every girl nowadays are somebody's sloppy second.
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>>34970987
>divorcee
Gross.
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>>34970964
>How the fuck do "normies" deal with this feeling?
They don't.

You can either remain in your puritanical Chud mindpalace where loving someone who has had a past partner means you're somehow a cuck because you didn't get to experience those things (or god forbid you're one of those hypocrites that has sex but wants virgins) or you could try to change your mind. If you care about her then answer should come easily and if it doesn't then it came easily anyway.
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>>34970995
Because normies are also out there to get laid themselves.

It's the experiment where baby monkeys are separated from loving mothers. Both male and female monkeys find God after being raised isolated- they run away from sex before marriage.
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>>34971445
>Because normies are also out there to get laid themselves.
No, just because they're mentally healthy.
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>>34970964
Remember Anon, there is no forever. It's just your turn with her.
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>>34970964
5 would be good enough for me, I have fucked at least 60 women probably more I used to get blackout drunk and fuck em.
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>>34970964
you have to equalize the body counts. your gf can help find girls for you to sleep with, should be a pretty quick process provided you're not giga ugly
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>>34972140
This. Or just go to a brothel and you can knock it all out in a day
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Even 1 is too many
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>>34970971
this, as soon as you have a wedding ring on your finger other women will want to fuck you. your body count will be higher than your wife's in 5 years.
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Must make you feel great to know he is already planning on cheating on you
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>>34970964
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>>34970964
>before me
i.e. you expected the same thing every other dude did. Sex without commitment.
This is the slut you asked for, retard. Get over yourself.
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>>34970964
5 dudes bent her over and went PLAP PLAP PLAP on her, SEVERAL TIMES.

There is just no way to get over this.

>How the fuck do "normies" deal with this feeling?
Normies are cattle, anon, they just do what the TV tells them to.
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>>34970999
>I’m technically a virgin too
what does technically mean
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>>34972795
Catholic
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>>34972390
>i.e. you expected the same thing every other dude did. Sex without commitment.
not true, I never had the intention of hitting and quitting
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>>34970999
Checked. You're in the clear, but make him pay for shit and never settle for 50/50. Avoid if he wants to stay childless or has no actual timeline for marriage (2 years tops).
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>these are the men complaining about the "male loneliness epidemic"
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>>34970964
>>probably the best I could realistically find,
I had some similar offers. I turned them down & will now die alone. Its hard, but I dont think I could live with it otherwise. Each man decides for himself.
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>>34970999
YWNBAW
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>>34970964
You were supposed to be out there having sex with people too, so you could figure out how to care about someone without being neurotic. But it's probably too late now, you've sorted yourself into the weirdo virgin camp and you'll be dealing with sexual hang ups for the rest of your life. You are not normie, normal adults do not think virgins are pure or interesting or valuable.
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>>34970964
Honestly that girl is a freak for wanting to marry a male who's never been with a woman before. Run away bro
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>>34972797
If you have had sex with her before marriage, you are a great example of exactly how women rack up these body counts. Lots of guys tell women they are in it for the long haul and won't break up for any reason, so the girl puts out because she loves him and believes him and he promised or heavily implied that they would get engaged. Then, surprise, he doesn't actually want to get married or have kids because that's a shitload of responsibility for no benefit. "Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free?" as the saying goes. So she breaks up with him to find a guy that really means it this time, and the cycle continues.

Not to diminish her responsibility; she should have said no. But if you are already having sex with her, I don't think you really have a right to give a shit either. If it bothers you, bail. You'll be no worse than those other dudes.
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>>34970971
>>34970987
Maybe you should start spending your time looking up how to cope with a microdick or whatever the reason for your obsession is.
Or frankly, go out and your own bodycount up so you don't need to go insane and want to marry any girl you made out with once.
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>>34970987
jim halpert would never say that
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>>34974405
nah women love that
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>>34974427
aha you fool if women actually loved it then they would be throwing themselves at all the virgin men, thereby neutralizing their virginity
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>>34970964
Same situation here. She's my first and I'm her 5th or something. I was a 25/yo khhv before her and now I'm 2 years into this relationship.
I feel like I've dug myself into a hole I can't get out of. What do I do aside from killing myself bros?



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