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I need help and from what I’ve seen from videos 4chan works wonders. My situation is very sensitive so I won’t be saying much. My girlfriend is in a really bad family situation. Without disclosing too much it’s an 18+ situation and I’m scared for her life. Can anyone help.
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>>34971099
you have to give more details otherwise call the police.
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>>34971099
Stop the molestation. It's your responsibility.
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>>34971108
I agree with this anon. I would call the police.
And then I'd join ICE.
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Should I contact the police? I’m young and I’m scared. Her father threatened to do horrible things to her and has done things to her and has even given her to men to do things. I’m scared to get the police involved since we’re just young
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>>34971139
You should tell her father if he doesn't give her to you a few nights a week then you will go to the police.
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We’re long distance and the thing is that her father is knows to be irrational and have psychotic episodes and I don’t know what he’ll do to not just my girlfriend but also the rest of her family. Even if I did go to the police all I have are text messages from her saying what’s been happening.
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>>34971118
>>34971147

Ignore these retards and call the police.
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>>34971167
The universe has no blueprint for justice.
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Honestly, you should do nothing. It might sound cruel, but the truth is, once her dad is gone and all her problems are fixed, she's going to start going out with other guys and leaving you behind to explore what she couldn't before. Do whatever you want, but remember my warning.
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>>34971164
How long distance? How old are you (roughly)? How long have you been in this relationship? Have you ever met in person? Has she ever been untruthful with you? Are you in contact with anyone else she knows? Has she asked you for help, directly or indirectly?
The risk with calling the police is that if they don't do anything, for whatever reason, her situation will probably get immediately worse. So you should have some grasp of what's going on beyond just her account. Not that she's necessarily lying, but because, even if she isn't, there are reasons things are the way they are. Financial, for example.
If you have good reason to think her life or long term health is in danger, then yes, call the police ASAP.
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Get this woman some help and call the cops you retard
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She lives in Texas and I live in Maryland, both me and her are in high school, we’ve been together for 3 months, no we haven’t met but were scheduled to meet this Christmas upcoming Christmas, no to my knowledge she hasn’t, I can contact her mothers socials but I haven’t contacted her yet, Yes he’s asked me for help directly. From what she’s told me is that her father has a lot of control in their family and they don’t know about his sexual assault towards my girlfriend.
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>>34971368
Just send an anonymous mail to her school where you explain the home abuse and let them figure it out together with her.
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>>34971099
Is she hot? I'm not helping if she's an uggo
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>>34971164
>Even if I did go to the police all I have are text messages from her saying what’s been happening.
Your problem is that if you go to the police, and the police talk to her, she may deny what's happening, because she's too frightened of her father to tell them the truth. She might claim she was lying to you. If that happened, it would definitely make the situation worse, because the police wouldn't be able to do anything and her father would know she had talked to someone.

I think what you need to do is talk to her and try to persuade *her* to go to the police. If she won't, then you trying to interfere in any other way probably won't help.
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>>34971139
>anon believes his lying BPD gf
Ngmi
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>>34971368
Okay. If she's asked you for help, then you should do something. If she's been sexually assaulted, you should do something as soon as possible.
Do you trust your mother, father, elder sibling, or other older family member? I would ask them for help with this.
It's possible her mother is ignorant. It's possible her mother is also being abused. It's possible her mother is complicit. You don't know this girl nearly well enough to judge. And you aren't old enough to take full responsibility for this by yourself.
Compile all your messages and evidence, unaltered. With an adult you trust, contact Texas CPS/DFPS via their hotline.
>>34971565
I think they'll try to contact her at school/privately first because of this. It wouldn't get to her father unless she told him herself.
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>>34971589
The only family member I somewhat trust is her mom based off of interactions I’ve hard over the phone and actions she’s done for my girlfriend of course.
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>>34971488
She’s not an uggo
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>>34971612
You don't trust your own family? I'm talking about having someone to help you through this process.
Also, I hope her mom is great and nice, but you don't know her, so don't assume.
You can call and report to Texas DFPS by yourself, making sure to tell them your age, but it would be better to get adult help with this. You would need to give the DFPS your own name, address and contact info probably.
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>>34971139
Asset dominance. Beat up her father, it's the only option.
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>>34971099
You will not make things worse by contacting law enforcement. Just do it
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>>34971627
I have maybe 1 or 2 family members that I fully trust. And also I thank you so much for you help and input .
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>>34971724
You're welcome.
Tell your trusted family member and contact DFPS together. Before the call, write down what you know and who you are to her and collect all evidence without any annotation or editorializing.
Hope everything turns out well.



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