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Downloaded Hinge in June. Had 600 matches since then, went on two dates despite countless convos that went nowher

I honestly think it’s over for me. I'm already 24 and my brain is so fucked up I don’t think I’ll ever be capable of having a normal relationship with women or even getting them to see me as a human being.

And I don’t even think it’s because I’m neurodivergent. My friend is ND too and he’s already fucked 2 girls after being on Hinge for like 2 weeks.
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Take better pictures, be more insane in opening messages, or try a different app. If you're not swept up in the purity culture bullshit that half of this site has fallen into, try something like Pure (and pay for it) and find a BPD fling that will be fun for a few months and then a life lesson (and will get you in the gym).
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>>34972763
600 in four months? Are you Chad? It took me almost 2 years to reach 600.
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>>34972763
>it's over
>says the MALE on a DATING APP in ADDO DOMINI TWO-THOUSAND TWENTY-SIX who got 600 matches in three months

That's 200 matches a month. You are certified hot by women. Your problem lies elsewhere. What do you do in real life? Any friend groups, hobbies, job, events, etc.?
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>>34972763
>Downloaded Hinge in June. Had 600 matches since then
Did you come to brag or something? I don't get it
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>>34972763
2 / 600 is abysmal
your text game needs serious work
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>>34972893
Not chad. I'm paying hinge X. I'm just 6ft2 with a good frame and my face is decent.

>>34972938
I'm unemployed, friendless, my only friend was my ex gf that broke up with me months ago. currently earning neetbux due to my disabilities (autism, adhd)

>>34972998
I don't know how to talk to girls and they can instantaneously smell it
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>>34973021
Women don't like NEETs. You can fix socialization with time and practice, but get a job nigga.
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>>34972763
Two dates and you're giving up?
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>>34972763
Get off apps. Don't listen to sunk cost fallacy retards like this:>>34972779
Apps are built to keep you trapped in the loop of swiping and paypigging. Moreover, by now almost all women have left them because all the apps are good for is for getting flooded with creeps and dead eyed gymbros on the hunt for the next pump and dump.
even if they were real women, most of your matches were just bored chicks looking for someone to jester for them while their bf is busy, or getting confirmation that they are still hot.
Talking to women IRL takes a fraction of the effort while yielding markedly better results.
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>>34972893
>>34972938
I think you misunderstand something. Its not the top 20% of guys who fuck, its the bottom 20% who don't
You're just unusually ugly or give off a pussy repellant vibe, that is all.
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>>34973081
I work a retarded shift and an app got my me my current girlfriend and a few fun flings, YMMV.
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I don't want to give up, but it's depressing seeing skinny fat Redditors who look and sound like cucks getting 10x more results than me. If they had my looks and my matches they'd probably have a body count of 100+ within a few months.

I don't even know where I stand in the grand scheme of things being this autistic and this bad with women. At least being isolated would mean I don't have to constantly stress myself out and get reinforced in the belief that I can't do shit with people every time I interact with women.



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