How do I get better at dealing with door-to-door sales people? Every time I have to talk to one, it fucking ruins my day. I get stressed out and anxious and feel like a jerk if I try to be "tough" . I used to have a No Solicitors sign, but they would usually ignore it anyway. I get a lot of dudes coming by that will neg me and say my house looks like shit for one reason or another to sell window replacements or whatever, and it makes me feel bad. The nice ones I talk way too long and I get suckered into buying stupidly overpriced service that I end up regretting. I like my house and normal people and friends/family say they like it.Pic somewhat related. We found out a neighbor had rats and are now trying to shop around for a decent exterminator because we apparently have or had some up in our attic too. First guy that came by tried to sell us this package that was $20K but I called around and thankfully my family member who does realty said that was fucking ludicrous scam price and to bail on it.Oh, and our brand new A/C went out and I have to have a guy out for that too. Fun stuff, all at once.
>>34974004Just don't answer the door.
>>34974004You ignore them. They're trying to scam you.
>>34974030>>34974032Yeah, this is what everyone else has told me. I just feel super weird doing that and they'll hang out on my front porch for several minutes and knock several times. I just want to be left alone lol
>>34974057>uhhh they standing there so I have to make them comfortableDon't be a pussy.
>>34974062What would you suggest then? Is it better to yell at them and tell them to fuck off? I have done that before, but it just makes me feel rotten. I got mad mainly because that guy woke up my kid with his incessant knocking. Every time I try to open the door to tell them to just leave though, they just keep talking and talking, which I guess they are trained to do.
>>34974076Put a bluetooth speaker on your porch and play loud farting sounds.
>>34974004Just say no thanks I'm busy sorry. Have a good day
>>34974087When I've done this, I just have to eventually shut the door in their face because sales people will just keep talking even if you tell them to leave in anything less than a direct threat on their life.
>>34974004If you're not planning to buy whatever they're selling, you are wasting THEIR time by letting them keep talking. So you don't need to feel guilty for interrupting them. Hold up one hand, palm forwards, and say firmly "Let me just stop you right there. I'm definitely not interested in buying, and I would be wasting your time by listening to you any longer." Then step back and close the door.
>>34974004The problem is you live in a shithole where there's sales people. I never have those. Just save up money and move away.
>>34974057The salespeople understand, anon. They get ignored 90% of the time, it comes with the territory. Personally, I ask if they have a warrant and then tell them to please leave
>>34974004"No" and close the door
>>34974004get a "no soliciting" sign and put it outside your door.Then you won't have people bugging you.