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>got banned in late 2023 my fave local cafe for asking a girl out
>she didn’t even fucking work there, she just was a regular
>tried again start of 2024. Still banned

You’d think I’d be in the clear right? WELL I tried a week ago and guess what. Still. Fucking banned
How can I overcome this and I can’t get over how bullshit this is. Asking someone on the premises isn’t harassing, and it’s the principal. 3 years is obscene, can I post shit on their wall about this?
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>banned for asking a girl out
Why don't you tell us what actually happened.
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>>34975391
If you did nothing wrong, write a bad review and go to a different cafe. If your going there to stalk an innocent girl and have been kicked out multiple times your trespassing on private property and can be taken to jail for being there.
Just find another starbucks incel.
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The cafe has a right to refuse entry to anyone for any reason.

Wish they would do so more often. Smelly homeless keep piling inside.
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>>34975391

bot thread made to demoralize men from talking to women

I recognize this and I sage the bullshit thread.

That said there is lesson in this for young men here who think everything online is real and actually happened to someone.

1. if you really respect yourself as a man, you wont be desparate about putting yourself where you arent wanted. Be it a woman, place, or whatever.

OP is stuck reliving his rejection complex, which manifests as him craving women who dont return same vibe, or even places.

He doesnt see it, he isnt aware of it, he thinks he is cursed or treated unfairly.

He will absolutely continue to have similar experiences until he realizes he has his own worth and value, and starts to behave accordingly.

When he sees in himself VALUE, others will see it also. And he will then be ready for a healthy relationship.

As it stands now, he is at worst a troll, cia plant or some other golem.
Or at best a lost boy, like so many in 21 century.

Consider the entirety of this problem solved, rest is on you.
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>>34975391
Nigga, How the FUCK are they gonna ban you from a store? They kick you once, big deal, you come back the next month, who's supposed to remember you or deny your money?

If you did anything that warrants a threat to security you would have been taken to jail and that's the end of it. But no, you're LARPing, or live in some feminist shithole where you hit on a 14yo girl. You don't want to go back to this place so move on.

>>34975656
>muh value muh self respect
Words that mean nothing from your run off the mill fart huffer. You have a right to dignity, you have a right to self-capacity. The way this shit world runs takes away chunks of both from most people, and it would be more helpful if you told how to recover them than taking a piss on those who have lost them.
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>>34975627
>The cafe has a right to refuse entry to anyone for any reason.
This is not true. OP just has to identify as black or claim he's a troon and they can't legally keep him out.



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