>>34975881
It's usually driven by boredom or the availability of a better option.

>>34975946
ok why don't they fucking say so instead of disappearing or leading you on for ages? no, it's driven by a lack of consideration for other people. you could just say "sorry, not interested, bye".
still, you didn't answer my opening question.

>>34976209
You’re too emotional. People leave for all kinds of reasons maybe they don’t care, maybe you did something, or maybe it has nothing to do with you at all. The possibilities are endless, and you never really know unless you ask them. Either way, you shouldn’t let it consume you. Focus on the present and the future instead of dwelling on the past.

>>34976215
>The possibilities are endless, and you never really know unless you ask them
i fucking can't can i? because i'm being ghosted.

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>>34976436
Then you will never know, which is kind of obvious.

>>34975881
>State gender
I'm a Male.

>was it a friend or gf/bf?
friend. My girlfriend never ghosted me. It's the otherway around and yes, I gave them silent treatment followed by ghosting.

>Have you ever been ghosted?
Yes. The one who ghosted me were the people I almost never interacted with them after the first encounter. I didn't bother reaching out back at them since I just became friends with them for the sake of occasion and they are too.


>did you ever find out why they ghosted you or why they flaked?
Yes. In the previous question there were no follow up or interest to be friends so it was mutual for both sides to just unfriend but the ghoster is the first one to pull do the unfriending. It's not really a huge deal in today's age compared to long ago when blocking wasn't a thing.

>ok why don't they fucking say so instead of disappearing or leading you on for ages?
that's the whole point of ghosting, to be AWOL. Absent without leave. You don't get along with a friend you just made or got into a serious fight but expect to reconcile later but the other party doesn't feel or see it that way especially when they find you not worth it, troublesome to be with in the present and future. No more drama, we just let the argument pass and you forget things then you realized you two aren't friends anymore and just understood both of you are strangers from that point on.

>no, it's driven by a lack of consideration for other people. you could just say "sorry, not interested, bye".
Wrong. If we go with the traditional unfriending which is confrontational and aggressive which can go with blackmails and threats. The person on the receiving knows you. You have to cut off ties to prevent any serious damage inflicted upon you like using your friends of friends to persuade you as a liar, manipulator, bad person, etc.. anything to ruin your image even though none of those are true. If you've interacted with multiple people you've realized everyone are after their own selfish interest and some people just don't go with your vibe, plans and goals.

Let me give you an example:
I have this friend I get along with. We play games together for 2 years and been doing rank. I know his strength and weaknesses we did won matches and did the same tactic to the next match until he started not doing it. He pretends not to understand the plan of that round when obviously he knows how the plan when he just did it in the previous match. All he had to do was replicate it but he makes up bullshit lies he doesn't understand the plan just to make you and the team bad. It was a personal sabotage He is deliberately doing it on purpose while faking things.

Do I have to argue further and act like a man child and cause more scene waste both of our time or I just let this friend who is a traitor to my eyes for sabotaging intentionally for his personal interest becoming selfish player in the team or I just unfriend and block this bastard and get myself a new friend? You're going to make say otherwise or act like a man confronting when the other one is more mature route and benefit both letting it go no more senseless arguing.

>>34976436
>i fucking can't can i? because i'm being ghosted.
that's the problem with you. You don't know how the relationship/friendship started and don't understand how it'll all end. You don't see the problem no matter what even if there were attempts fixing it in the past.

Nobody would just ghost you without giving second chances at most or have ultimatum.

Now your turn to state your gender and how you met your ghoster and problem you two had before getting ghosted. Don't act like a victim when the two of you are apart of it. it goes both ways.

>>34976619
>If you've interacted with multiple people you've realized everyone are after their own selfish interest
you've had some shitty friends, no wonder you want to ghost them
>>34976638
>the two of you are apart of it. it goes both ways.
nice projection.
>>34976638
>Nobody would just ghost you without giving second chances at most or have ultimatum.
you've literally just said you did this though, and that is what ghosting is- disappearing with no second chances or ultimatum.

>>34976926
>you've had some shitty friends, no wonder you want to ghost them
No shit? that's why ghosting makes sense?

>you've literally just said you did this though, and that is what ghosting is- disappearing with no second chances or ultimatum.
I said "Nobody would ghost YOU without giving second chances at most or have ultimatum. YOU as in YOU and NOT me.

FYI, I gave my friends and my ex-girlfriend a chance. I have a betrayal trauma where I'm done relying with shitass fake people. Expressing my feelings to them or confronting them doesn't justify shit and will most likely be ignored or just backfire. The whole friendship is pointless.

>nice projection.
>you've had some shitty friends, no wonder you want to ghost them
You may don't want to hear this but YOU are that SHITTY FRIEND to them in this case especially when you're the one whose being ghosted.

You ain't disclosing one bit of your issue here so clearly you're the problem unless you explain the whole thing and justify yourself.

>>34976209
>still, you didn't answer my opening question.
Not like I expect you to explain the whole crap. Not a single anon here answered your questions while I did meanwhile you haven't answered mine so you're a fucking hypocrite refer to >>34976638

>>34976959
i think the real problem here is that you're some kind of third world ESL.
>replying to posts i didn't make in reply to you
i think you're retarded too.

also you know what else i think? 4chan has periods, like a woman, and shitty posters just turn up in waves. sometimes you can make a thread and it's really constructive and people participate and answer your questions.
and other times it's like this, some asshole just talking shit, barely any replies and what you do get is rubbish really. like, not even trolls, just actual enraged children and the mentally challenged. gonna fucking dip.
TGD

>>34975881
Practically every woman online ghosts me or flakes after like 1 or 2 messages you are lucky if you got any further

>>34977133
Thank for you are being ghosted. No wonder nobody gives a shit about you. Whether you're being confronted or not you just deflect and not deal with the actual problem.

YOU. ARE. THE. PROBLEM.

I hope you end yourself upon realizing the friends or partners you've made doesn't like you as time goes on.

ive ghosted many women and its the best way to get back at their kind

>>34975881
I've been ghosted by various guys online and irl.
Only one I have an explanation for is the guy who stopped talking to me bc he got someone else pregnant.
People don't like confrontation, especially when the person they're dumping didn't do anything wrong they're just not what they're looking for. Ghosting is easier than having a tough conversation where you tell someone you don't dislike that you find them boring, embarrassing, or too much.

>>34978516
>26
nah girls ghost just cause they want to be bitches and don't want to deal with the guy anymore guys ghost to get back at women