Im just a fag, im gay, im in love with a guy i want to love him so much but i feel guilty, deep inside me i know is wrong, that it is futile and that when we get old i probably will regret it because we wont stay the sameI dont know what to do, celibacy or what? I dont like women at all but i dont want to be alone like i have been all my life
>>34975932Well you really only have the two options: accept being gay or be celibate. Your choice. You cannot trick your way into liking women
>>34975932Plenty of gay couples stay together into old age and are very happy together. I don't know where you get the idea that they don't.
>>34975932Don't feel ashamed of it buddy.If being a fag was inherently bad, evolution would get rid of it long time ago. >when we get old i probably will regret it because we wont stay the sameStraight couples also experience this. In your case it's better to feel a fleeting happiness with someone you love,than never feel this by being with a woman or nobody
>>34975932>i know is wrongIt's not.Is it "normal"?Maybe not.It might not be normal. It might even be a mental illness.But being mentally ill has no bearing on your morality as a being.I'm an autist. I don't Do lit rooms.That doesn't make me a bad person, it simply means I'm dealing with the brain I have with the tools available to me.Don't let miserable cunts tell you otherwise.
>>34976860But what about animals. Let's say penguins, lions and bonobos all somewhat exhibit homosexual behavior. Could they be mentally ill either?
>I dont like women at all but i dont want to be aloneWagied at a nursing home. You want to see the number of straight men who have ended up alone?
>>34975932does the guy like you back?
We're all gonna end up alone in the end lil bro. Nothing can stop that. You ain't gonna be holding hands with your boy/girl/whatever when death comes knocking. Nothing matters... which unironically means that it DOES matter to choose happiness every single day before that sad inevitable day comes to pass
>>34975932Dude you like dick, big woop. Most straight women like it too. If it were "unnatural" or whatever the fuck, it wouldn't have happened time and time again since the beginning of humanity.Besides, gay marriages have less chances of having abuse in them, and are more solid than straight or lesbian ones, that does not solve anything but statistically you have more chances than I do as a straight guy of keeping a marriage until I kick the bucket.Go out, take some dick, fall in love and take some more dick.Fag.
>>34975932Lots of older gay couples. And married gays can have great lives, two male incomes with no kids. Don't feel bad that you like men, it's what you like and that's ok.George Takei has been with his husband for 40 years. It's completely possible
>>34977324he likes me, still have to find out if he loves me, if he doesnt love me im pretty sure i will never love another man like i love him and then i will want to be celibate>>34976072>>34977569I know gay male couples are pretty stable and that gives me comfort, maybe is just part of the insecurity about being gay, my mind still kind of wrapping around about it, maybe i did not emphasize on OP but this is something i kind of just accepted recently