I heard that phrase and it really made me think. I am pretty awful at interacting with women in a flirtatious or romantic way. I rarely get dates and when I do, I never make it past the 2nd date usually. Most times can't even get a first date. However, "Interacting with women shouldn't feel like pulling teeth" seems accurate. Most interactions I have with women in such a capacity always feels like pulling teeth. It feels like they never really want to interact with me or that I am just an annoying fly in their way. Not saying that is how they actually feel but it is how I feel when interacting with women like that. I actually don't think I have ever had a romantic interaction with a woman and it didn't feel like pulling teeth. I don't know what it would feel like for the woman to make it easy for the guy to interact with her. So, I am looking for advice on how to actually have NON TEETH PULLING interactions with women in a romantic capacity. It seems like every date I have ever had(5 of them and I am 32 years old) has felt very tooth pully and like the woman barely wanted to be there.
>>34976589Set aside a long weekend and take a high dose of mescaline or mushrooms.It'll help break down the barriers in your brain and make you less self conscious.
>>34976829not true i did acid, shrooms, and molley in Florida and a whole lot of weed as well as alcohol and made me more self conscious that was where my incel journey began
>>34976589You shouldn’t be talking to anyone that gives you a “pulling teeth” feeling. If they aren’t normal and human enough to like you and have a normal conversation then just keep moving. The thing with girls is you have to look bro. I’ll be honest. I add hundreds of girls on insta and snap daily and out of all those hundreds of people I added or followed maybe about 10-20 will add me back and a few will even message me first and we’ll just start talking. Do it every day bro. Thats what you have to do these days. Just spend a lot of time searching for girls who don’t make you feel like that and accept you and actually wanna talk to you because they are out there. You just have to either find them yourself or be visible enough for them to find you. If you don’t have a decent looking social media presence, you’re not getting a girl. If your TikTok or insta or Snapchat doesn’t have a profile pic or a bitmoji and it’s just blank. Girls are gonna think you’re weird and you’re not getting one. Figure yourself out, then worry about that, then the right people who are supposed to come will come.
