I finally got a girlfriend at 28 years old after 10+ years of constantly working on myself, never giving up all while seeing guys snatching up girls like it's the most natural thing in the world since they turned 14. I found an ok girl, I like her, she seems to like me. However, I cannot get over the fact that dating for me was climbing Mount Everest while for her dating was like sitting in a chair.How can I get over this? I am an ugly guy, not tall either, average to small penis. I always knew that dating is an insane battle for me. That my life will always be impossibly difficult. But I still feel depressed about it, bitter and spiteful.
>>34977789Why are you sad? You made it bro. Hell yeah. Continue being the best version of yourself and make reasonable accommodation for having her in your life. Long-term relationships are like a project vehicle, it's quite enjoyable at the start but you're going to have to put in some initial work to get things sorted, and then it takes maintenance to keep it going. Do that and have your happily ever after. Also I don't give a shit about your height or cock size, and if she's with you then it's not a deal breaker so you should get over it too.
Stop acting like a bitch. You got a girl, so just let yourself be happy. Dating and life in general is just easier for women.
>average to small penis
>>34977789So did you have a fitness question OP?
>>34977789alright but you're getting pussy though
>>34977789>I finally got a girlfriend at 28 years old after 10+ years of constantly working on myselfHow did you do this? I'm 32 and still can't figure out how to get a gf.
https://desuarchive.org/fit/search/text/28%20years%20finally/type/op/Giving TOW
>>34977795Just get a girl thats in your league. A morbidly obese one
>>34977790>Why are you sad? You made it bro.Did you not read his post? He's saying that he achieved at 28, after working for over a decade, what many others did at 14.He had to put 1,000x more effort than others.His "collossal achievement" was effortless for everyone else. And he's gonna have to fight an uphill battle for the rest of his life to maintain it.He worked for a decade to get other men's leftovers, while the others got fresh, tight early teenage virgins with no baggage to enjoy to their hearts' content, at no cost whatsoever.It's like going to a sports car dealership and being sold a decade-old car, that a dozen other men drove for free for years, and then the salesman tells you that YOU have to pay full brand-new sticker price.
>>34977789Do you legitimately believe you can gain from maintaining a bitter and spiteful attitude?From a purely selfish perspective, you have every incentive not to be make your insecurities everyone else's problem, so do notFrom a more optimistic and selfless place within yourself, if such a place exists, I think you would begin by not expecting yourself to simply overcome these harsh feelings in a relatively small time scale.Your resentment built over the course of over a decade, tearing it down within a few months of dating this person will likely be beyond your ability even if you were to reach out to a therapist who specialized in relationship counseling or gender relationsDo your best, understand that as long as you don't feed your basest instinct to declare yourself a martyr in the name of all men who endured an awkward phase, you will at the very least not become a belligerent and crippled human being.If you search these feelings and decide that you want to fuck people to get "what you're owed" understand that you will be lucky to find a handful of people across your entire life with a connection strong enough to build the foundation for a long term relationship with, and weigh the consequences of your shift in priorities appropriately.At the end of the day, you will be the one person you cannot escape answering to, and that is not a free pass to chase immediate gratification. Yourself in a diaper being carted around in a retirement home is still you, so don't rush to an answer unless its one you can stomach
>>34977798implying that he's giving an objectively correct assessment to how things happened and that his inability to get girls during teenage year is entirely not his fault>>34977789this is not a fitness related question. however, think about whether you'd be able to tell her how you feel about this relationship and whether she deserves an honest person who does his best or a repressed emotional cripple who's angry at how his life turned out
>Makes it>Still complains
>moved from /fit/abstolutely btfo
