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What does it mean if I only attract women I'm not attracted to?
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Means you too ugly, bitch.
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When you look in a mirror, it shatters.
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Same problem here.
I took care of 2 sick parents which makes my standards for women even higher.
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>>34995463
Means you're still a chad. Close to 70% of men nowadays can't even attract a single woman despite being so desperate they'd marry a fucking landwhale tattoo single mom with aids.
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>>34995974
>despite being so desperate they'd marry a fucking landwhale tattoo single mom with aids
Im not that desperate
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>>34995975
Cause you're chad. Chad doesn't need to be desperate because he has options and can just pump n' dump until getting the virgin wife he wants eventually. Alternatively just generally having female attraction means other women will eventually grow attracted meaning that virgin chad will still get what he wants (virgin tradwife who's obedient to him alone) after a while of searching.
Consider yourself very lucky. Most men do not have the experience you have. You being able to attract women is a boon leagues above high IQ or talent nowadays.
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>>34995974
Women over 22 are trash
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>>34995979
correct
however I would say most of them are already over out of highschool
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>>34995978
Anyone can attract women if they do the "rules of the game" by Neil Strauss. You can run it yourself.
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>>34995978
Im not chad but the very opposite. Im just not desperate.
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>>34995463
It means you are attractive when you don't care. You're doing something off putting when you do care.
Alternatively, you are just unlucky in that your vibe only attracts something you're not interested in.
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>>34996037
You should care
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>>34996037
>It means you are attractive when you don't care. You're doing something off putting when you do care
I dont get it. How does it work?
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>>34996082
NTA but he means that when the stakes are high (and you actually like the girl) you self-sabotage by being too nervous or trying too hard and you blow it and push her away. Whereas when you don't care, you're more relaxed and just being yourself, which is what women like. (and what you're supposed to be doing anyway even if you do like her)
I was going to come in here and guess you're just too picky for your own attractiveness level. So his theory is a lot more flattering for you, it means all you have to do is chill the fuck out.
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>>34996137
>I was going to come in here and guess you're just too picky for your own attractiveness level.

NTA but you don't know his background, maybe he is a pro racing driver or skipper or suffered hardships that boost his attractive level implicitly.
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>>34996035
>>34995975
You are also not OP, so stop responding like you are
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>>34996037
There may be something correct here. If I zoom out I have attracted women I find attractive before, but when they engage I get nervous and lose my cool because I actually really want them, and they kinda freak out

Not sure how to fix that
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>>34996037
Basically before a woman shows interest, I don't care how hot she is, I'm not giving her any attention period. And maybe this does end up attractive to them, but once an attractive woman engages with me I "try to get her"...if I don't then it's like I missed my shot kinda thing, they're not gonna keep engaging me. So how do I maintain the aura of not caring when I actually do once they engage? Maybe the answer is to get right to the point? Like be direct and tell them I'm interested, I don't get it. Maybe I just don't know how to talk to women.
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One time I was on a school shuttle that transports student to the dorms, college..and this really cute girl rests her head on my shoulder for th ride and starts telling me how good I smell and smelling me. Never had a conversation with her before...and I completely blew it. Can't even remember what I said but it was lame for sure. She never talked to me again after that, just don't know what you are supposed to say or do. I have a bunch of stories like that with attractive girls approaching and me fucking it up.
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You're attracting them because you treat them like human beings.
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>>34995463
It means you aren't taking what you get dumbass. Just fuck anyone, you don't get many chances.
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>>34996242
Yeah like what are you even supposed to do when a girl starts hitting on you?
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>>34995979
People under 23 are usually mentally ill or retarded.
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>>35000167
>Just fuck anyone
terrible advice
>you don't get many chances.
Ooof. Thats some nasty cope you've got there.
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>>35000167
You can get it up for someone you are not attracted to?
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means you're stacysexual which is OK because if you gonna put up with a woman's bullshit it may as well be a hot one. also, mid/ugly women are super promiscuous because they need more validation. so if you have brains, you'd logically be stacysexual.
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>>35005801
Notice how no one mentioned looks.



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