My friend is an artist and she keeps drawing me but pregnant because she thinks I'm super hot pregnant. I asked her to stop bc it's weird and she showed me a COLLECTION of drawings of me pregnant with every guy I've ever dated and I didn't know what to say. She's been posting them online and even showed them to people we know and I was too stunned to reply beyond just leaving.I told my bf about it after working through the embarrassment of the situation and he said it was a dumb thing to get upset over and that it "doesn't matter" but I feel gross thinking about how she's been repeatedly drawing me that way and I can't help feeling it's sexual in some kind of way?I want the drawings of me to stop, to get rid of the ones she posted online, and to get her to see why it's all so weird. What should I tell her?
>>34997106Tell her you're not friends anymore and tell us where the drawings are posted so we can see them.
>>34997106Maybe you should just get pregnant and fuck her already
>>34997106You should tell her that it makes you uncomfortable. Explain why those pictures make you feel that way. If she isn't respectful of you then you just have to cut her off. I'm not sure you can force someone to change their views if you don't want them to.
>>34997186I'm planning to cut her off but I'm not showing anyone those pics because they don't need more exposure>>34997189I don't believe it's right to bring children into the world if you can't ensure a good life and future for them.>>34997198I'm more worried about making the art stop and getting rid of what she has already posted online
>>34997226She's pretty clearly infatuated with you. I'm pretty sure this only stops once she finds someone new to obsess over. Getting rid of the stuff online might be more difficult. Other than trying to manipulate her, you could see if she'd be willing to trade you. Like you get the rights to the pictures and she gets your socks. Idk but that might be your best option.
>>34997106None of that matters. You are the one being weird. Forget it if it bothers you for some unnecessary reason.
We live in the age of ai. You can't stop a gooner from generating your pictures.Also, is your friend trans?
>>34997264Sick and weird. I just don't understand why she's like this.>>34997743What are you talking about? She drew me pregnant and always made my belly weirdly detailed.>>34997757My friend isn't trans, she's a Tumblr artist though so she is very much aware of people's pronouns and so on. She uses she/they ones.
Do you want to cut her out of your life?
>>34997198>'m not sure you can force someone to change their viewsSure you can - you just have to apply sufficiently large amounts of force.
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>>34998128At this point I do if she won't stop. I don't want people to see that art of me, and I'm disturbed to imagine her thoughts around seeing me that way. My bf looked at the art and said I was overreacting bc it's "not bad" but he's downplaying the weirdness of it all
>>34998439what else can you do other than cutting her off?if she goes around sharing the art, it will expose her as being deranged.do what you can and move on. and definitely don't feed the situation or the person will get more obsessed and feed more into it.
I've drawn degenerate art of my friends. It's done by request (+commission fee). Not of their real looks, their avatars.>>34998439Your bf is being diplomatic.It definitely is an issue if she's repeatedly drawing you, especially if it looks like you
>>34997106Seems like a silly little thing. Ask her to draw you with sonic the hedgehog behind you next time.
>>34997106Your boyfriend thinks it's hot and wants to see it.>We all think about it.
>>34997106draw your friend with a penis and post it online.
>>34997106Maybe she's trying to make your bf jealous by emphasizing the other men you've had sex with?
>>34997106>with every guy I've ever datedHow many guys have you dated??
>>34998639Many. I have dated her too.
>>34997106>>34998715So you're trans
Are you male or female?
>>34998715So person who you've dated is drawing picturesnof your pregnant and you've walked away instead of setting clear boundaries? Then you wanna piss off instead of talking about it in depth despite deciding to be friends with your ex? Fuck you dude. Tell her why exactly it makes you feel weird outside of "it's gross" or "it's wrong". For example, "I feel like these pictures are you sexualizing me despite our relationship being over. It makes me uncomfortable especially since I don't like the idea of having another guy's kids in me". You could also just say you don't like being reminded of all your past partner n be done with it.
>>34998715This post was not from me. Showing some of the (You)'s from earlier in the thread>>34998785That wasn't me. My problem is that she is a lesbian with a weird obsession with pregnancy and she keeps being sexual toward me. She is a friend, we have never dated.
>>34997106>ran through with so many exes that a friend can make a collage of you with other men>pregnant and not married to supposed fatherOh boy let's see how this is gonna turn out lol $100 she'll be a single mom in 1 year
>>34999327I'm not pregnant, I'm anti-natalist.
>>34999397Im anti-natalist too, but only for the races I don't like.
>>34999444I think it's important we focus on fixing the state of the world before anyone worries about having children so I don't plan to ever have babies but my friend calls it a "tragedy" and acts like all this pregnancy art she draws is going to change my mind
>>35000101A large portion of the modern economy is propped up on the idea that the future generation will be able to afford the taxes needed to pay off the previous generations pension fund. The last thing we need is to reduce the population of working class citizens.So the global economy is going to be fucked in like 40 years because god forbid that old people can't waste a bunch money on random crap and subsiding in a hospital. Obviously there are several other reasons for why things are going to shit this is just numero uno.So unless your plan is cancelling pension funds, which would never fly since the majority of voters are oldfags.We are basically fucked gang, dont even mention "fixing the state of the world." Not happening.
>>35000342Exactly my point, I'm not bringing a child into that world so I'm just never going to get pregnant.
