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I have no libido, every time i try to jerk off i feel like it's a fucking chore. Also, it feels like a waste of time, i'm better off doing something productive. It's also a pain in the ass to clean up the mess after the deed. I don't feel sexual attraction to other people either. It also feels like a chore performing the whole ritual of having sex. I can't even get some bit of satisfaction by watching porn or something else sexual, to me it's like: ''They're fucking, i guess.'' I'm not particularly bothered or saddened about any of this, but i think it's intriguing. It's as if i'm turning indifferent to all the desires i used to have.

Am i retarded?????????? Autistic????????? Am i dying inside???????
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>>35004536
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>>35004536
You're asexual. It's fine. Chill out.
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>>35004536
Why do you do it then? Better question,
Why do you care, when you obiously dont care?
Just do whatever makes you happy why would you have sex if its weird
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>>35005874
I guess my worry is that when i was younger i didn't have this problem, i would jerk off and it would feel satisfying and worthwhile.

I think i'm just tired and depressed.

>>35004988
I hope not. That's dysfunctional.
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>>35004536
That's coz sex is meant to be once in a while, contrary to what society brainwashed into everyone. Save your sexual energy for a special person or occasion and not for pixels on a screen. And have real sex instead of staring at other people have sex
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>>35006241
>That's dysfunctional
No it isn't. Asexuality is simply a sexual orientation. It's no more or less dysfunctional than being gay or being straight.
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>>35004536
>>35006241
>I guess my worry is that when i was younger i didn't have this problem
You're not an ace. You've achieved control over your urges and you can occupy your time with other pursuits. I'd say "we're a big club," "it's common," but I don't know. It's not something people openly brag about.



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