What do I do if think I've developed feelings for an escort? I've seen her regularly over the past year every 2-4 weeks or so. We've talked a lot and she's been quite open with me. She seems to initiate kissing more and more each time. She's taking a break for a few months and I told her I'm going to miss to which she said she'll miss me too.She's said that when she's back we can swap books with each other which was nice. She also regularly uses cute/flirty emojis with me.I don't know what to do. I feel like if I never tell her how I feel I'd regret it forever.I don't even want to have sex with her that much any more. I won't even see her again until January at least.
Oh you fell in love with an escort did you? Planning to take her away from that life next?
>>35004906>Planning to take her away from that life next?No. I don't care what she does.
>>35004893Bro, I'm telling you to drop it right now before you get hurt. It's strictly a business transaction.
It's perfectly normal and nothing to worry about. You are clearly enjoying each other's company. As long as you are able to keep it at that level and not fall in love you're fine. Enjoy it while it lasts.
>>35004916if you didn’t care you wouldn’t have made this post to begin with
Can you taste the BBC cum when you kiss her?
>>35004893>She's taking a break for a few months and I told her I'm going to miss to which she said she'll miss me too.If she actually liked you, she would offer to see you socially while she's not working. That she hasn't suggested this means she doesn't care about you at all.
>>35004893a variant on ZStockholm Syndrome. If the person is the one you have the closest and most frequent interaction with, and if she is your source of emotional nourishment, you come to depend on her and think of her as a friend
>>35005029What if I do fall in love? How would I know?I lost my virginity to her.>>35005065I did suggest to her that we could maybe meet to just chat and talk about books to which she said "I'll think about it" and "that could be nice". My idea is to maybe text her around December time to see how she is. Unfortunately I don't know if she'll see my message as her phone will be switched off.
>>35004893kek she's got you goodyou're just a walking credit card to her. want a proof? ask to see her but not as a customer and see how well that goes.cut contact asap, she'll be sending you messages when you quit booking her but resist the urge (block her)if it's too hard, see another professional (but this time don't see her too often/exclusively)meanwhile what you should really be working on is your game with normal women, but you probably already know this
>>35005219I see different escorts but I see her by far the most.
>>35005235just curious, how much $$$ are u spending on them a month ?my last experiences with women have been disastrous and I'm thinking of switching to escorts for a while. not user if I can afford
>>35004893If she takes a break and it doesn't involve seeing you, that means she is maintaining distance. You can always go for it anyway but it will possibly blow the whole thing up, which might be for the best.
>>35005249Around 500 converted.>>35005255My idea is to text in maybe early-mid December to see how she is and if she responds. She's having medical treatment for an issue (not an STD).
You just end it
>>35005457My life or seeing her?
>>35005041I mean about her being an escort. I would date her still.
>>35004893>She also regularly uses cute/flirty emojis with me.means nothing. >I've seen her regularly over the past year every 2-4 weeks or so.regular contact with another person especially if you're attracted to them sexually will just release the same chemicals in your brain as falling for someone normally would.You've fell for the classic trap. She sees multiple people, she thinks nothing of it. You only see her, you think of it the world.
>>35005529Whichever is easier
She's just playing the game, for money. Like another anon said, if she was genuinely interested in you she would make time to see you purely socially without a price tag attached. I feel like you already understand all this but had to check the group consensus so I understand, but it's probably best you cut this one off. Get on a dating app instead where the hoes are free and there's potentiality for an actual relationship
>>35005198>she said "I'll think about it" and "that could be nice".That's a no. Stop devoting so much of yourself to this woman, she's not yours and she doesn't want to be yours.
>>35005198>she said "I'll think about it" and "that could be nice".she did not say "sure" or "yes". Read between the lines. You lost your virginity to her and no other woman is giving you attention so obviously you latched on to her. She's only looking for your money, she probably enjoys you not being rough with her and pretty much an easy to satisfy customer, and would never actually date you.
>>35005611>You only see her, you think of it the world.I see other escorts but I think about her much more than others.>>35005626>Get on a dating app instead where the hoes are free and there's potentiality for an actual relationshiplol I've never had a date in my life>>35005629>>35005636Depressing but probably trueThe only thing in my defence is that she offered to let me borrow one of her books when she's back. I don't know if she would do that if she didn't like me
>>35004893Bro maybe she's actually giving you an in with this. Say something like "would you like to meet up just to do activity X." Make it a casuak thing like a walk where no sex is implied so its jsut "friends" meeting up ;)
>>35005639You borrowing a book implies you're going to come back and pay her again. You're such a clueless incel it's insane
>>35005792I did want to say that last time but I fucking choked
>>35005965YOU'RE BEING DELUSIONAL, IF YOU SAY ANYTHING LIKE THAT SHE WILL NEVER SEE YOU AGAIN
>>35005792she's an escort, so do you really think she doesn't know a dude's intentions by asking her out under a performatively platonic guise? i'll give you an answer: she does and other dudes have definitely asked her out on a date before. men who frequent hookers aren't always the most fulfilled in their love lives. i wouldn't give the op anon false hopes simply because this woman is being flirty in a profession that requires such a mannerat the end of the day you wont get a straight answer unless you ask her directly. she's a hooker so i don't think things would be weird between you two if the event did happen since she's probably used to combating guys
>>35004893Great customer service just like that girl working the counter at the store you guys have a crush on
>>35004893notice how op doesn't reply to anyone that isn't approving their delusions
>>35004893Not this thread again, the last one just wouldn't fken end
>>35005986My worry is if I say something she'll freak out and ban me from seeing her again.Is it normal to just want to hang out with her, and not want to have sex that much?
>>35007379How do you usually meet and where? Ask her if she's ok with meeting outside and have dinner together and then go together to a hotel room.
>>35007595We usually meet at her place.
>>35005978so what should I do?
>>35008350she's a hooah. just fuck her and distance your feelings.
>>35008356idk how to do that
>>35007893Ever met at your place? Just ask if you can have another type of meetup. Or ask her if you can go to watch a film with her first, then go back to her place.
>>35008384nah I live with my parents so I can'tI might ask her if she wants to go for a meal or something sometimeBut I get a bit self-conscious so ideally I'd just meet with her somewhere quiet
One whoremonger to another: just remember the money you've spent on her and realize nothing would ever happen without that. It kind of happens to me too when I'm treated very well by escorts, but at the end of the day, it's up to them to turn it into something more if they wish to. You as a client have no power to do that except to become even more of an ATM, which you really shouldn't do. In general, you can forget about love and reciprocity with these women, if not women in general. It just doesn't work that way. The problem isn't in her or you, but only in how you handle it. Realize it's just neurochemistry playing tricks on you and that you'll always be nothing but a tool to everyone but your closest friends and family. Do be kind and respectful, but never fool yourself into thinking that strangers will ever love you or some shit like that. It's not a real thing.
