Hello anons. It’s been a long while since I’ve been on here. I’ve been really working on myself and stopped being a bum and started my career in the medical field and got a job that pays with experience rather than money so financially still doing pretty bad. But now I need advice once again. So I’m not sure if I should continue my relationship with my partner. He has a lot of problems which make me come home from dealing with patients to dealing with him. He can’t physically take care of himself and all he does is game all day which isn’t really the problem since we started talking cuz of a game we both really enjoy. But the problem here is I have to come home and do the cleaning, cooking and every other household chore after my 10 hour shifts and he can’t even get himself to shower or brush his teeth. Thankfully he’s getting therapy and medications for his schizophrenia, but idk if I can continue living as his maid. He keeps using his mental illness to excuse his actions even though he isn’t doing anything to help himself in that matter while I’m living my life with mental disorders and neurological issues which would make it impossible to live my life if I would act like him. I do love him and this doesn’t have to do anything with his looks I’m very much attracted to him. It’s just that I don’t see a future coming home to this. I would like someone who I can look up to and who can take some weight off of my shoulders rather than with someone who I have to constantly take care of. So what should I do?
he ain't gonna change without a tower moment
>>35005870Twin its your life, you're the main character and should do what makes you happy even if its not "the best" for other people, I can tell you that you shouldn't feel guilty etc but it won't help how you feel.As an outsider I would say you should have 1 talk with your partner where you clearly state that you cant do this anymore and need help from him, or you will leave because this isnt healthy for you. If he changes he actually likes you and there could be a future, if he doesnt change he isnt worth the trouble and you should break up because there is no future.This option is only if you actually like or even love him, if you just feel guilty because he has mental disorder you should just break up etc and you will stop feeling bad in a few weeks.
>>35005903He’s currently not talking to me cuz of total war I should sleep I have to wake up in 4 hours for work
>>35005870>So what should I do?Dump him. I think you probably know that's what you should do, you're just too chicken to actually do it.
>>35005870This isn't going to get better. In fact, it will get worse. As your career advances and you get more responsibilities, you will realize you don't have the time or patience for his bullshit. Make the decision now.
>>35005946You dont have to talk RIGHT now but the next few days, and if it doesnt work out you will find someone better trust me you actually sound like a good person
>>35005870You must be the caretaker type. Why pick such a low quality person? Do you get off on taking care of him?
