Should you date someone if you know it won't become a long-term relationship? She's fun and high-energy, but I know it won't last since I'm boring.
>>35006279This doesn't even soubd like it won't result in a long-term relationship. It just sounds like you have low self-esteem and will probably sabotage it because you hate yourself
>>35006279I once dated a girl like that. Turned out she thought I was cute, funny, and a sexual tyrannosaur. Our 30 year wedding anniversary is next month.
>>35006303Seconding everything in this post. >>35006279Do you see yourself getting bored or do you think YOU will get bored?
>>35006303I wouldn't say I hate myself, but I do have extremely low self-esteem. She approached me actually and made it crystal clear she likes me, no girl has ever shown any interest in me so I've now got to decide whether to pursue her or not. Even when I talked like a complete sperg she was generous kept pushing me to ask her out, and like an idiot I hedged and didn't give a straight answer. I will find someway to sabotage myself like, it's happened before.
>>35006339BPD girlie x shy autist is a canon event, enjoy the ride.
>>35006313Congrats anon
>>35006323I'm afraid she will get bored of me. The relationship will just end in a few months when she sees I've got literally no friends and my entire personality is just mostly work. I am attracted to her physically and her bubbly, high-tempo energy but our personalities are polar opposites. I like history and listening to audiobooks, while she's a sociable, and extremely extroverted.
>>35006343Lol thanks I'll try to hang on
>>35006364Then try having her take you to some extroverted things, but manage yourself. If you need to sit in the "they don't know" corner after two hours or play with a dog at someone's house, that's fine. >>35006382It will change you, however long it lasts, whether it's forever or six months. This is character development. Learn how to eat pussy and finger if your dick isn't huge/you don't last that long, sex is a glue for a lot of relationships and satisfying her will make you amazing in her eyes.
>>35006279Yes because practice is always valuable
>>35006364Ok cool you're right whatever who cares.Just get some sets in.
>>35006279>I know it won't last since I'm boring.How about you let her decide how she feels instead of deciding for her?
>>35006279Go for it, enjoy yourself while it lasts.
