I've a "virgin only wife or nothing" sort of a brother. He is reasonably good looking, about 6'1-6'2(I'm 5'9 and he is more than half a skull taller than me), makes 6 figures, is planning to become a "startup bro" and is appaled by the modern dating scene and the women involved in it. I want to convince him that there's nothing wrong in dating & marrying a non-virgin woman, but he is absolutely disgusted by the prospect of having children with these types. He literally sees non-virgin women as whores. I tried to gaslight him by saying that it's objectification & dehumanization to categorize women with a past as vermins, but he counters it by saying that it's even more pathetic, lowly & verminous of men who marry ran through women, as such an act not only taints the man's honour, but also that of his would-be children. I also tried to shame him by saying that only insecure, impotent, non-masculine men care about a woman's past, but he won't budge. How do I convince this autismo to change his outlook on life and not to waste his potential all away?Also, How many men out there are actually repulsed by non-virgin women when it comes to marriage? I couldn't find many, but I fear there could be a lot of closet virgin fetishists that I'd imagined.
>>35007752>appaledappalled*
>>35007752Let him make his own decisions and experience whatever consequences he has chosen.
>>35007752He's insane. There are basically no legal age women who are virgins, is he after children or someone shit??
>>35007752Does he have amicrodick or something? This is just him delfecting any sort of intimacy by posing factually impossible demands. The only women who may meet his criteria are iether severely mentally ill, or religious fanatics who generally get married off within whatever cult raised them. >How many men out there are actually repulsed by non-virgin women when it comes to marriage?Outside terminally online freaks? Basically none. There are severely religious men who are like that, but those generally just look for an equally religious wife instead of seething about people not following their personal lifestyle.
>>35007763he is 27 and only wants women above 20
>>35007779He's completely retarded. I mean maybe if he wanted to go for a barely legal teen it would make some sense but his 20+ rule makes this shit even more retarded.
>>35007767>Does he have amicrodick or something?Doubt that gaslighting trick would work as he would immediately counter me by saying only desperate dicklet losers who're insanely in the depths of desperation would even contemplate idea of marrying used up whores. Besides, I think big dicked men themselves don't have to settle down with non-virgin women if they've an abundance mindset, so I don't see the logic with your implicitly proposed gaslighting trick
>>35007811I've figured you out. You're just this guy making a third thread about this subject. >>34998653
>>35007834I'm different though anon.I suspect that since the topic of bodycounts became so common, one could start seeing a lot of rage b8s & shitposts surrounding it.
>>35007849You can't fool me. Not that hard to tell from the writing style.But regardless of how many threads you post, there is no magical combination of words that will help you. Not every problem has a linguistic solution. Sometimes you just have to have sex.The one thing I will give you credit for is that you've correctly identified that your manner of speech is so unlikable that it's better to project it onto a third-party entity (e.g. a brother that doesn't exist). However, you will not get a better answer than this, so you should frame it on your refrigerator.
>>35007860LMAO.This place is literally filled with schizos.
>>35007872I'll let you have the last post. Later!
>>35007811I was making a rhetoric point.The main point is that he is blocking any kind of relationship or intimacy with a woman by demanding taht she fulfills a condition that is basically unfulfillable unless his target group is literally 16 years old. >think big dicked men themselves don't have to settle down with non-virgin women if they've an abundance mindsetThe average age for both men and women to lose their virginity is 18, with less than 5% of both genders holding on to virginity after the age of 25. There is no "abundance" here.Besides , the only people who hold that mindset are terminally online virgin incel. They have been so addled by porn that they immediately imagine any woman getting creampied by Tyrone if she ever has been with another man. Its just mental illness.Big dicked men with an abundance mentality who also think like this flat out do not exist.
>>35007888You would be better off if you actually heeded to this advice instead of derailing my thread
>>35007890>Big dicked men with an abundance mentality who also think like this flat out do not exist.It doesn't matter if they exist or not, the point is that one can't partake in silly 'gotcha' only to be countered by a similar 'gotcha'. I need something stronger.>impossible standardsBut we all know that this was an absolute, bare minimum standard just 50-60 years back and was the case even before that. Times have obviously changed, but given the fact that there had been a very long history of this "bare minimum" requirement across many societies & cultures, he seems to find it hard to accept anything less than this bare minimum. It's almost as if he finds it already humiliating enough to bow down to high demands that a lot of women are making all the while being promiscuous.
My advice is that you mind your own business instead of trying to live vicariously through your brother.
>>35007942He is a good man and I don't want him to waste his life
>>35007950>I don't want him to waste his lifeIs chasing pussy in his youth really the best possible use of his time? Is that the only measure you have for his "success" in life?
>>35007950My statement remains the same. Were your positions switched, I will assume you would hate him trying to push his values on you.
>>35007955I mean, he could be missing out on decent(?) women who just so happened to be women with a past. Besides, the dating market only goes from bad to worse as one ages even when one discounts the current cultural degradation & trust of our society or the demographic decline that has been happening for some time. So yes, he could be out there actively trying to find a decent enough wife instead of being so hellbent on only wanting virgin women.
>>35007752absolutely ultimate basedkill whoresno hymen no diamond
>>35008034absolutely pathetic.What has virtue got to do with the virginity status of a woman?
This is a bait thread created by virgin incel OP who just wants to create a thread of shitflinging.
>>35008086>What has virtue got to do with the virginity status of a woman?Loyalty, restraint, delayed gratification.
>>35008102You can be a non-virgin woman and still be loyal af retard.>>35008093kys
>>35007752There are a couple of options here:>He's super religious (you would know if this was the case. I mean a full time participant in church life, not bullshit tradlarp "religious")>He's fucking loads of women (you would know) and he's just the eternal bachelor type>He's secretly gay>He's autistic and therefore fucked on the dating sceneIt's one of these four, guaranteed. No one with options in their late 20s is holding out for muh virgin waifu because they're just too mega based. That is pure redpill fantasy.
>>35007752Weak bait. Very weak.
>>35007752Your brother is a based lad and y'all very likely had a non-whore, non-cuckold parents alright.
>>35007752Well, I don't think he's entirely off the rails as you may think. I do believe that having that standard is hard to fulfill, but not unfulfillable. I've got plenty of friends that, just out of trying their luck, ended up with virgins as their current girlfriends.If he's good looking enough, it'll work out for him eventually, unless he's too autistic to make it happen.One should take into account the girl's past, but to an extent. You can't fucking discard her because she had 2 serious boyfriends at 25 years old?If a girl has 10+ body count then that's a hard no, or whatever number you want, 5, 4, 3, but this amount should be tread carefully, specially if older.If he doesn't want to fuck as many women as he wants while he's still young, then let him be. Not every single man wants to maxximize their body count
Virginposter evolved. Keep the demoralizing train moving
>>35007872>I tried to gaslight him by sayingAi would do a better job writing your posts.Please never have sex. Women lie about their bodycounts just so your genes die out in a few years.
>>35009453>You can't fucking discard her because she had 2 serious boyfriends at 25 years old?Cuckold or a whore.
>>35009501I hate non-virgin females as much as the guy next door, but it's unpractical to just close up to them
>>35007752you can't change him as revulsion for hoes has more to do with the extended immune system overfunctioning than "insecurity" or whatever crap cuckolds and whores peddle everyday. >>35009742Nta, but it's pathetic of people to be this desperate that they'd rather sacrifice their values & legacy than live by them. Would u even be able to digest the notion that ur own boy will come out of a vagina that other men used as a masturbation toy? I suppose the visceral disgust/discomfort that men have for non-virgin women stems from these sorts of unconscious gut feelings, even if these gut feelings aren't visualized or put into words by those experiencing it.
I'd be careful about wishing for a virgin woman. She may be a nightmare on an entirely different level. Obviously don't date someone who is promiscuous to where she won't stay stable with you. But however a woman who is a little bit bad isn't gonna mind a few things about that are a bit bad compared to this uptight woman who will demand you throw everything you loved: that Sci Fi games you like *trash*, your friend you drink with on the weekends *trash*, your guitar you play with to make these death metal songs you loved *trash*. What do you get in return? A bible and a dress shirt to go to church on Sundays and go home to mow the lawn working a job you hate to then see your wife yelling at you for not fixing up the house nonstop to oblivion. A fucking miserable life. Here's the best alternative: A woman who finds you when you are playing your music and wants you to rock her world. BINGO.
