How do I become the proactive guy, you know the organizer of fun things? Ihave been working on my social skills and looksmaxxing for many years now, but I find that I can not think of any activities to do with normies. It is so strange to me, what do normies like to get invited to, and will yes to? Could be a boys night whatever. I can only think of cafes, restaurant, bowling, music festival, and thats it. Even then when I invite somebody to a cafe, I have no concept of a plan of what would then happen. Do we just sit and talk? Are there hidden expectations? It seems when I try and organize something it is 'wrong'. What am I missing that makes the normie night out good?
You gotta pick activities that are fun for their own sake. Gives you extremely easy conversation topics. Go bungee jumping or gokarting or hiking or painting or some shit. Not just "Entertain each other at a restaurant", although that can be fun in its own way, usually is a way to just chat and catch up. Not particularly fun.
>>35008090>yeah guys lets go paintingi dont think anyone wants to go painting/gokarting/bungee jumping with me
>>35008311Make new friends.
>>35008316ok we go to an activity, lets say gokarting. Then what? What will happen - what are the expectations? There is always something to 'it' that I am missing when I try and do anything.
