how do i become chill? i only attract neurotic men who are easily stressed out. i am like that but i recognize it's not ideal and i wish to change. so having two people like this is even less ideal, alongside me not being attracted to this.i feel like it's pretty hard to find genuinely chill men who enjoy being fun rather than always being serious when i don't like to drink/smoke. and no i don't mean entertaining me but simply not being stressed out all the time or always finding something negative to say.
