how do i become chill? i only attract neurotic men who are easily stressed out. i am like that but i recognize it's not ideal and i wish to change. so having two people like this is even less ideal, alongside me not being attracted to this.i feel like it's pretty hard to find genuinely chill men who enjoy being fun rather than always being serious when i don't like to drink/smoke. and no i don't mean entertaining me but simply not being stressed out all the time or always finding something negative to say.
define chill
>>35008958Find a BBC
>>35008958Life has a strange way of causing stress and cynicism. Out of the men I know, the most outwardly happy and cheerful men I've met are fairly religious.
>>35008958>only attract neurotic men who are easilyThat’s not true at all. You definitely do get interest from men with better attitudes but you don’t acknowledge them at all because you decide they’re not good enough for you for other reasons. The guys YOU PICKED from that crowd were like this. You were hoping to reach up into a league above you’re own but you’re finding that the people in everyone’s league are comprised of people exactly as attractive as them and also the people from one level up in attractiveness with shit personalities/minds. Pick a guy who is actually normal and stop trying only replying to those guys.
>>35008958You see this kind of thread from both femcels and incels, really>I don’t like my options so how do I misrepresent myself to better people who are out of my league? Surely it’s easier to change literally everyone’s perception of me and be an entirely different person than it is for me to admit that I was being ridiculous
