I had the perfect gf for me and our love was so pure but I managed to sabotage everything. Been single for 6 months now. Went on 3 dates since thenFirst one lasted an hour. We didn't click and I spent half the time yapping about the substances I take and pharmacology stuff. I think I scared her off.Second one lasted 6 to 8 hours and we clicked pretty well. She was schizoaffective so we had the neurodivergent thing in common but I cucked hard at the end. We were right next to her place and I didn't even try to kiss her or ask her to come over. She even told me during the date that I didn't know how to talk to women and that I was embarrassing. She went silent for 3 days then told me she'd been hospitalized after overdosing the day after our date. We texted for another week but I haven't heard from her in 2 weeks now so I assume I've been ghosted.Third date was yesterday. She was enthusiastic over text but seemed so disinterested IRL. She kept complaining, barely smiled and seemed like a sheltered homebody with nothing going on outside work. I couldn't carry the conversation because she felt so distant. After 2 hours she faked a call from her friend to leave. This shit is humiliating. Idk if I should even keep trying when I'm this bad with women. I'm 24, tall, jacked and supposedly in my prime yet I feel inept at dating. I fucked up the one relationship where I had something real and now I'm scared it'll remain my only romantic and sexual experience for life. Idk what the fuck is wrong with me
larp
I haven't been on a date since 2017Shut up and just keep trying since there are women willing to date you
>>35011465Most dates are strikes, that's just what it's like. I probably had to go out on dates with three dozen women before I found one I wanted a second date with>She went silent for 3 days then told me she'd been hospitalized after overdosing the day after our date.Sounds like you dodged a bullet there, OP
>date so bad she decides to overdoseyou are a God amongst boys
>>35011526didn´t you read his post? he is a bullet to be dodged himself
>>35012290>didn´t you read his post?No
>>35011465>overdosing the day after our dateThat IS a failed date
>>35011465>I spent half the time yapping about the substances I take>"I didn't even try to kiss her or ask her to come over"as if that's a good defense for the next sentence>She told me during the date that I didn't know how to talk to womenThread example #789439 of "All women are the problem and not me"
>>35014128Huh? Everything OP said was self-deprecating so you're either a fucking retard or I'm wildly misinterpreting your sarcasm or something
>>35011465If only you’d give up substances and stop getting involved with neurodivergent women who are trapped in an endless cycle of overdoses, you might stand a better chance of getting a date the more conventional way. But then again, you’re a bit awkward and can barely strike up a conversation and keep it going without scaring off the girl you’re on a date with. So I’d recommend that you adopt a more assertive and dominant role when you’re on a date and work on your social skills for your own sake. It’s not all over yet.
Immerse yourself in lava, OP
>>35011465Sorry you are incapable of being attractive>>35011469Agreed
Yeah so the girl I saw the other day just unmatched and blocked me lmao....>>35014331Yes people keep telling me there's a huge contrast between my looks and my personality. I look pretty dominant but when it comes to women I act like a fucking cuck. I get nervous, start overthinking everything and end up acting weird because I can't control the flow of the conversationMaybe I should just larp as the guy I look like until it becomes natural
>>35011465>She even told me during the date that I didn't know how to talk to women and that I was embarrassingI blame the foid. What the fuck does it even mean, doesn't know how to talk to women. Maybe she is the one who can't even talk properly and requires some clown to dance for her since she can't initiate any conversation on her own. If there is some chemistry and she is into you she should also contribute to the date in any way. It can't be that you do your best and she just sits down as if it's job interview and says "no sry you're too cringe" what is this shit?
>>35011526>I probably had to go out on dates with three dozen womenWhere the fuck did you meet three dozen women? I can't remember the last time I even saw a viable woman.
