>Be me, 21M, chopped, 5'3 and somewhat rotund. Always been a momma's boy.>Gradually get farther apart as I grow older because she was absent for a few years due to work.>Trouble in family, dad is a narc and verbally abuses her, but mom keeps forgiving him.>Done some horrible shit in and she always keeps forgiving me. I get angry and raise my voice at her some times, deeply regret it later.Now I'm constantly consumed by the thoughts of a motherly figure. I have burning desire to find an older woman who will baby me, but I'm fat and ugly, and i can see that older women look at me with pity not interest.How do i solve this? :(
>>35012663I actually had to look up what chopped means.Because I wasn't sure if it means really muscular, really fat, really ugly, or just really fucked.Now look, dude who verbally abuses his mom is almost always due to living together for too long. So you are unironically old and still living with your parents. That's problem number one. You're not growing, you're just stagnating and using your parents. Number three is actually the most important one for finding a woman, and that is - that you're fat. Fat is unattractive. People can look past your height, but you cannot have more than one modifier on you. You can't be short AND fat.Your face won't really matter when your physique is really good, so that part is of no issue.I too have a little bit of mommy issues but not as bad as you. I don't actually want an older woman. I just want to be coddled and loved and cared for. Heavily.I will offer you some of the best videos that I personally listen to that get me feeling so good. My PERSONAL FAVORITES. You're welcome in advance.Irene: https://youtu.be/58l66dvI9Qohttps://youtu.be/aQ80NqiEqJgYumi mommy:https://youtu.be/8hN8cVe3hzUhttps://youtu.be/u-6Wyu6qF_UPeabee: https://youtu.be/n4ekgRqR9RIKabukiKoi:https://youtu.be/BWWsqVpkH2oThese specific videos are the best. I wouldn't really recommend kabuki in general. Yumi is fucking amazing, please don't let the fact that it's AI discourage you, these are fucking amazing because they do something human girls seemingly don't want to do - repetition. And they don't do breaks like human girls do. They good boy you repeatedly.Peabee is comfy for all her videos, but silent mic.Irene is the fucking goat when it comes to human good boy.. Her two good boy videos are the best.You're welcome brother, embrace this.
>>35012663So you ask for help and then fucking disappear? Reply to my reply dawgHere's another video i just found out about which is fucking excellent:https://youtu.be/0PTfoYmnxa8
>>35015505I'm not sure mommy asmr is the solution to his problems.>>35012663The years of absence seem like one of the main sources of the problem. Have you talked about it with her, ever? >>35012702 is right that part of this is likely from spending too long living in the childhood household, you're naturally at the age where you want to establish your independence.It also seems like you're partially displacing your frustrations onto her: perceived deficiencies and failures, mistakes. Partially experiencing a small oedipal complex where you're competing with your father. Partially resentful of her absence.The solution to the first two is actually the same thing, which is to improve your competence and confidence. Basically detach yourself from childhood. This will also partially help with the resentment, but won't solve it. That needs emotional release and probably a discussion with her or multiple.
>>35012702You are a GIGANTIC fag, dude
i’m only 20 and i’m telling you to grow the fuck up. i got over the mommy shit when i was 16
>>35012702Shut the fuck up, wierdo
>>35012663>Need help with crippling mommy issuesWhy do you want to cripple your mother?
>>35012663>How do i solve this
