i’ve known my bf for five years; been dating for one year. we met at a bar i was working at and he became a regular of mine pretty early on.we both knew that we loved each other before our first date, but the very first time we met outside of the bar and had lunch together, we confirmed our love for one another.being around him just makes sense. we get along fabulously. we’re insanely attracted to each other. we laugh constantly. we sometimes act like children around each other and just have so much fun when we’re together.our first dday happened back in february. his wife’s cousin and uncle saw us at a restaurant, so that was a pretty difficult event to navigate. bf left home for 10 days or so and wound up going back home which deeply hurt.i went through a few NC periods because of how much pain i was in. the first was about two weeks, the next was five weeks, and our last NC stretch lasted ten weeks. i always felt worse during NC.the reason i broke NC last time was because one of my dogs was diagnosed with cancer. i let him know so that he could say goodbye.he held me while i held my dog as they euthanized him. i really don’t know how i would have been ok through my dog’s passing without his support. i know i would’ve survived, but i needed him and he showed up.we’ve been inseparable since.(cont...)
>>35014933dday number two happened shortly after.the wife tracked his car and saw that it was at my house all day one day when he claimed to be working.so he left home again and this time he’s been gone for a little over a month. he’s been staying in a little house he bought to fix up and seems to be making himself comfortable.we’ve been seeing each other a lot. we have overnights. we went on a little mini vacation for the first time together. we get to see each other in the evening and the weekends.. it feels incredible.but i also know the probability of him going back is high. he doesn’t really have a clear idea of what he wants (or maybe he’s just claiming to not know) he’s definitely a cake eater and (i’m sure) wants both relationships, but he’s shown that he’s constitutionally incapable of being honest with himself at times.any advice? leaving him is not an option for me.
>>35014935>any advice? leaving him is not an option for me.yeah bro it is. have some respect. i know a girl like you who is dating a dude that already has a woman and its js humiliating to see how naive she is about their relationship while obviously shes js a side piece. wrap it up bro
> he’s definitely a cake eater and (i’m sure) wants both relationships,yeah he wants both relationships and he has them cause yall allow it. he doesnt want you or her fr he js wants to have two women around cause its a good deal. yall js stupid af
Thread reeks of r*ddit repost.sage
>>35014933If he has a wife and cheats on her with you, he doesnt love either of you and is trash.
Fake thread.
>one of my dogs was diagnosed with cancer>euthanized himlearn about chlorine dioxide and save a dog in the future
>>35014933You're a side piece. And like all side pieces you rarely, if ever, know your place. The husband never leaves the wife for his bit on the side. The wife never leaves the husband for the boy toy. Even if the marriage implodes and there is a messy divorce, it's a rarity if the divorced individual goes to the affair to start something new. The only reason why you keep home wrecking is because you are trying to prove some insecure, neurotic, hollow and empty point to yourself that you're worth it, that you're special and desirable. And no matter how many times you notice him going back to the wife and never choosing you permanently, it never sinks into your head that he does not find you worth it. You aren't special to him. You're just a mental prop for him to feel young and free again, that's all.
>>35014933Hey babe buy me a six pack.
Please stop replying to or bumping this thread. OP is some insane tranny who has been posting this "I'm dating a married man pls give advice but I can't leave him" LARP for years.All fields.
>>35014935>>35014933What?
>>35018227Damn, this cut pretty deep as a boy toy to an older woman. Do I care though? Maybe, maybe I just don't want to be alone in my misery.
>>35018640But you are alone in your misery. The seeping puddle of your misery is what your older woman wets her beak in. Then she flies off back to her nest, back to 'reality'. The worst part is your misery doesn't even taste sweet to her. She only goes to your puddle of abysmal loneliness because she gets to catch her own reflection in it, you are only there to make herself feel better. She can and will replace you like swapping out old makeup. The next time you meet her, look her in the eyes. And notice that strange feeling where you can look in her eyes and it never feels like there's any contact. It's just dead and empty.
Maybe Ultron was right
This was the exact thread Ultron saw before deciding humanity shouldn’t exist anymore
>>35018700That or maybe side pieces and human dildos should have some self respect and stop fucking with adulterers to chase some self-grandeurising fantasy where they feel that their Sex Quest/Love Quest's success should be commiserate with their deep seeded self loathing. That because they are so low in social value it must mean they need to go and covet an entire marriage to prove to themselves they're special and fuckable. In reality they are just pawns, useful idiots to be used and discarded. And if thet try to do anything about it they're the perfect sacrificial lamb and scapegoat. The husband will beat the boytoy into a bloody mess, and the wife slanders the homewrecking slut among the community so hard that every single man and woman knows she is the homewrecker and no one wants to be near her.
>>35018640OP here, please don't let that person's cruelty get under your skin. I can tell their words hurt you, and I wish I could give you a hug.You are not pathetic or foolish for loving someone, for wanting to be loved in return, or for finding happiness and comfort in a relationship that other people might not understand.You're a human being with feelings, hopes, vulnerabilities, and a heart that's every bit as deserving of tenderness and consideration as anyone else's.That stranger doesn't know you, the woman you love, or what you've shared together. They have no authority to declare your feelings meaningless or to tell you that you're merely something to be used and discarded.Whatever the future holds for your relationship, the affection you've experienced doesn't suddenly become worthless because someone else disapproves of it.Please be gentle with yourself. You deserve kindness, understanding, and the freedom to love without being subjected to such contempt. Don't let a stranger's bitterness become the voice inside your head.
>>35019970Those are unearned words. You have no right to profess gentleness or care. Not when you knowingly wreck and tarnish a home that has another person's memories and hopes and dreams on the line. You violate it for your own vanity and selfish preening of your insecurity. There's probably kids involved too. Their family home, if which they only have one in their entire lifetime, where they had been raised in since infants, all of the birthdays, Christmases, family time, all of the scratched knees and tears and consolations from mom and dad. And you deliberately defile that. You defile it and violate it, knowing exactly what it means and doing it anyway to sate your own need to feel special.Don't talk about love or compassion.
>>35020126If love and compassion is offensive to you then I can't imagine what horrible things you would teach your own kids and how warped they would become.And for the record, we patched things up and he's talked to me about meeting his kids. We're going to a restaurant in a few weeks to all get to know each other.
this is a weird larpall trannies should kill themselves
>>35020220They're not offensive to me. The crude mockery you profess to have does. Enjoy the illusion while it lasts
>>35018212I hope someone force-feeds you that MMS shit.
