Will getting a gf make you happy?
No, and I'm not sure what could make me happy either
>>35016161No, but the endless striving gives you a sense of hope.
>>35016161No
>>35016161each gf is not the same
>>35016161No, she'll just be another source of unhappiness.
>>35016161Depends on whether you enjoy acting like Mr Nice Guy 24/7 or actually being yourself.
>>35016161I would have hanged myself 20 years ago of it wasn't for my wife. She is amazing.
>>35016383Yeah she is amazing...
>>35016161Yes. Ignore these miserable fucks.
>>35016392Was that your cum in her pussy yesterday? Tasted good
>>35016161>Will getting a gf make you happy?It made me much less unhappy.
>>35016226Lol, it only makes me want death more.
>>35016161It depends on what your source of unhappiness is. If you're lonely or need reassurance from someone, I think having a gf helps. But if it's something that makes you feel uncomfortable with who you are or if you think having a gf will fix you in some way, I don't think it would help.
>>35016161It makes you happy for a while until she makes you unhappy or leaves.
Happiness is fleeting but my kids give me a reason to live, so yes, in a roundabout sort of way.
A girlfriend (that you actually romantically like) will make a part of your life better, and if one part of your life is pretty good, it usually compounds in motivation to fix other parts as well.
>>35016161If she isn't mentally ill, then yes.
>>35016161It won't make you happy directly but it opens a door to more opportunities to be happy. Whether you take those new opportunities within the relationship is on you. (And her). Relationships are a multiplier. You gain x2 chances to be happy but you also gain x2 chances to be unhappy.
Only if you put work in the relationship and A LOT of work. You will not be happy just because you scored, not for long.
That's like asking if having a billion dollars will make you happy. On the surface it seems like that, but there are a shit ton of taxes you have to go through for that.
>>35016161No. It'll make you think you're happy for a while and when the dopamine wears off in a few months you'll be back to being miserable. Happiness comes from within and if you cannot be happy on your own a partner will not solve that for you. Not forever at least. You'll end up getting codependent and really fucking toxic and it'll blow up in your face.
>>35020379>but there are a shit ton of taxes you have to go through for that.and at the end of the day i'd still be able to pay off my mortgagefuck off with that
>>35016161Happy? Not directly, no. It might push you to do something worthwhile with your life though.
