Recently found out a woman I've known since we were 6, and I always had a semi crush on, had her first kid. How the fuck do I cope bros? I know women come and go, but hearing it was her just fucking broke something in me. It was like one in fell swoop I was reminded by God that I spend my nights scrolling and working my bullshit job instead of vying for a family and achieving it. I know I'm 100% being a fag whining like this, but I dunno, maybe its some mid life crisis shit cause that news legit had me drinking in my car alone at 3am for the past 3 days.
>>35017137Ask her if she would like a second kid
>>35017148Nah, her relationship is too new, I think they've only been together for 4yrs or so
>>35017137Everyone has their own path but it's common to compare yourself to your peers. On one hand, she has a kid and that's a lot of responsibility. On the other hand, you have a job and freedom.Just live your life, comparing is normal but try not to despair. You have good in your life too and more to come.
Are u very young or something? This shouldn't affect you much at all
