No matter how hard I try I can't seem to attract busty girls. I have tried be more social and even dating apps but nothing has worked
>>35017583If she is dressed like that then you're supposed to pay for them because clearly that's a whore
>>35017583Look them in the eye, not the tits. The novelty will make you stand out
>>35017596How can I do that though? I'm no better than my fellow men
>>35017583Look at them in the tits and say "damn, you have some BIG tits" and motorboat them.
>>35017604>"I'm no better than my fellow man"Then change or get used to tits no better than average tits.
>>35017729>Then changeI want to change but so far every attempt was met with failure, what am I missing? How can I properly change?
>>35017729Not OP but you have to admit your proposal sounds like a paradox >You want to enjoy a fine pair of giant tits?>Well stop enjoying them. You need to not care about them if you want them>>35017760OP I've been with larger breasted women and currently with one. Forget changing, nothing is going to stop your attraction towards them, the attraction is absolutely fine. Big boobs girls aren't dumb they know you're a man and you like tits and they know most men get more excitable when tits are bigger. At the end of the day a big titty woman is still a woman so she will want to feel desirable. What they want is to feel like the 'whole package' so that means they want you to 'see' them. That means you pay your affection to her personality first her body second. You can still slobber over the tits, but all you gotta make sure is you prioritize the girl behind the boobs, that's all. If her giant tits are like dessert you need to make sure to eat your dinner first before dessert aka treat her right as a person and then the fun booby boing boing time happens later.
>>35017775>treat her right as a personI know I am really inept but I had disastrous interactions with women in the sense of I am really insecure and awkward so I pretty much just freezeHow can I become that sort of man? One that is able to treat them right?I am asking because I have been a degenerate shut in for so long that I am at a loss at this point
>>35017784You're already that sort of man. You can make threads about dating etiquette and get dudebro advice that conflicts with itself all day, or vague and backhanded passive clues from women all night, but you can just take the shortcut by keeping it simple. There are no magic right words to say or super magic actions to take.You just need to understand that people, women included, all run off of the same script, same as me and you.>Everyone wants something>Everyone is afraid of somethingYou don't need to know what those somethings are, that's irrelevant. You just need to understand people want and people fear and all you gotta do is validate what they want and support them when they face fear. That's literally all you gotta do in any way you see fit.
>>35017583>I can't seem to attract ____ girlsFirst, men don't "attract" women. Men pursue women.Second, display kindness, competence, and strength.
>>35017908Nta but telling someone not to attract someone and then telling them to display x y or z is contradictive. What is that display for?
>>35017583post 1000 more times about it here dude, the first 40 threads you've made here did so much for you.mentally ill retard.sage
>>35018005There's a distinction between "trying to attract" and "trying to be attractive". A man must pursue and try to be attractive so that the woman is more likely to be receptive to the pursuit.The analogy here is the difference between putting deer food on your front lawn and waiting for deer to show up versus going into the woods to hunt deer while wearing camouflage and whatever scent crap they use that I'm forgetting.
>>35018306Ah okay I understand now, thanks. And good point
>>35017583i can't attract any girls (i haven't tried nor do i know how to try because of crippling anxiety)boo hoo nigga cry me a riverfaggot
I have the exact opposite problem. I'm not a fan of busty girls but that's all I seem to attract. So, it's either never have sex again or date busty girls.
>>35018404How would you describe yourself? What's your secret?
>>35018483Average looking but pretty outgoing.
>>35018404Opposite problem for me. I'm an ass man, dated and fucked many a bitch with a wagon, but for some reason I cant get a woman with atleast size D titties at the lowest. Its always some chick with a fat ass but her tit size is low C's at best. I remember my ex had a big titty friend and I had to straight up distance myself cause everytime I saw that woman, I imagined the most glorious titjobs and couldnt hold my excitement
What kind of panties do girls with really big boobs wear?
