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>35
>zero social life and haven't had any friends or acquaintances since school, even through university, where I had zero social experiences
>never had girlfriend or been on a date and no woman has ever shown any interest in me
>ugly nerdy shitskin living in Britain
>boring work from home job
>no social hobbies

So is this just life? Being a totally discarded slave that has huge pieces of life missing that others take totally for granted?
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>>35018790
>no woman has ever shown any interest in me
No multiple retard vagina threw themselves at you to start with their retard dumbass bullshit and have hordes of subhuman retard simps assist with their endless moronic smear bullshit?
Im so hecking jealous of incels. Yall live on easy mode
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>>35018790
I'm 36 and in the same boat, although I'm asian not brown and not in Britain. It's over for us honestly. First strike was having parents deciding it was a good idea to migrate to a western country putting you in nightmare mode in terms of dating, the rest of your traits seal the deal. Best try to find some hobby or craft that occupies your mind and get autistic over it. Be the weird old guy living alone on a hill that has crazy specific esoteric knowledge of herbology or something that people go to for cures.
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>>35019950
Not OP but
>Got into learning languages and drawing to cope
>Hoping it would one day lead me to be able to make a living free from 9-5
>Spent a decade, get pretty decent at drawing, get semi-fluent in CN/JP
>AI comes and fucks all these fields over, utter annihilation
>Decade completely wasted
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>>35018790
A social life is not going to come knocking at your door. You HAVE to go out looking for it
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>>35019957
>>Hoping it would one day lead me to be able to make a living free from 9-5
You will be, just through AI instead.
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>>35019959
>Try to go out to social events
>Randoms come to try to talk
>Mumble something incoherent, conversation turns awkward
>They just frown and move on
>Buy overpriced shitty beer
>End up in corner without realising it
>tfw
How do I stop doing this to myself? Is it just a problem of me having a boring life and not having anything to talk about? How do some people hit it off so easily?
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>>35018790
>usual /adv/ doomer blackpill incel slop about social skills
you're just lazy. your "lack of social skills" is just really an untrained social muscle. your "no social hobbies" is just an excuse to stay on your ass at home and get easy dopamine doing jack shit. fuck you. in the real world you have to take risks, and being rejected is the risk you won't take. guess what, once you manage to get accepted somewhere, the dopamine flows a hundred times more and life finally begins.
you're like a fat guy complaining about how it's impossible to eat less. it is, you just don't do it.

fake it til you make it
that's all there is to it. it's dumb but it works

also, (for the 899778th time) women don't show interest unless you're a special outlier. normal men have to try and make the woman interested. I know you don't get it, but hopefully someday you will.
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>>35019959
Hes 35
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>>35019966
>just do it
ok but how
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go back to your country fucking loser
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>>35019964
>Mumble something incoherent, conversation turns awkward
It's all about having a little self confidence and not give a shit what others think.
Like who the fuck cares if you're a mumbling mess, just fake it till you make it and if they don't want to talk to you, fuck them and move on.

Never make it seem like you're desperate to have a conversation or to be heard, normies sense that shit from a mile away.
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>>35018790
https://youtu.be/lqZehFAwoTM?t=32

It's over as soon as you turn 18 and leave the school system without a well established social circle. You go to work, but you won't make any friends, just coworkers. You join a sports club, same deal. It's over, because everyone already has their social circles locked in since childhood. You'll be nothing more than a coworker, destined to be alone for life. Social life and relationships are like trains you have to catch at the quay, a race against time that takes place during adolescence. And by extension, logically of course, no social life and no women.
But normies don't understand this because they are clueless normies who think you can walk into a bar full of strangers and magically form a social life like in The Sims. Only women can start from scratch and create a social life and get a boyfriend from scratch because of their status as women.

Whether you're 35 or 45 it doesn't change anything, maybe for the normies, but for you and me Chud, a year is like any other, the sands of time flowing towards nothingness, nothing more.. nothing less.
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>So is this just life? Being a totally discarded slave that has huge pieces of life missing that others take totally for granted?

its nothing. i have you, my piece of human garbage detritus via some pixels of lights. other than that i have nothing.
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>>35020223
>Never make it seem like you're desperate to have a conversation or to be heard, normies sense that shit from a mile away.
I fucking hate reality and normies so much
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>>35018790
Go back or stop complaining
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Might kill myself soon. Sick of not having friends.
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My father and mother have been harrassing me to get a girlfriend for years. I'm 29. When I was 26 I finished my college course and began applying for jobs and then my mother was diagnosed with cancer. I had €7000 in savings and i stupidly spent the money on her and she took advantage of me feeling sorry for her having cancer and kept asking for more money. After my mother died, my father began asking me when I will be getting a girlfriend and I said I have no plans on dating ever and he flew into a rage. He said "NOBODY WOULD FUCKING HIRE YOU. I WOULDN'T HIRE YOU." when I started looking for a job. He said you don't need money to date and he started demanding I start dating and have kids while on €254 social welfare payment. He also threatens the neighbours and punches walls while screaming. One day he started screaming " I HAVE A SEX LIFE. YOU DON'T HAVE A SEX LIFE" and he admitted his sex life is from fucking asian and african prostitutes.
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>>35018790
>no social hobbies
>zero social life and haven't had any friends or acquaintances since school
These two overlap, go try out hobbies.
Also find local community events and places.
Here in my city (~skandinavia) there are open 'living rooms' where you can hang, play boardgames, talk, participate in events etc.
Also several community groups have places you can go to. Church has good stuff and I go bowling, hiking, movies etc. with our priest and a few others, I also volunteer for stuff to do and get 'freebies' like cabin trips and food.
Its important to feel included and also to take part for your mental wellbeing.
>ugly nerdy shitskin living in Britain
I doubt your ugliness is not fixable by exercise, diet, shave/haircut and clothes.
Nerdyness is not a problem and being a 'shitskin' is not a problem in the UK lol.



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