How do you deal with regret for not taking obvious hints a girl gave you?
At the end of the day, thinking about the past, outside of what you've learned from your mistakes, is not a productive thing to do.
>>35018835Find a better one.
I acted on it finally, got rejected harshly, then realized I was just fooling myself those previous times. We see what we wanna see when it comes to hints. If you were attractive you'd be having sex, not relying on vague hints.
>>35018835idk man, i am still not over a girl i had a crush on in high school. i am a 24 year old kissless virgin. i try to forget but every few months i fucking dream of her and wake up in a cold sweat. i feel like i will keep being haunted by my failure until i die. it would be an even more ironic and cruel twist of fate if what >>35018843 said is true. FUCK
Guys crying and shitting their pants over girl problems while I'm over here fighting homelessness makes me cringe, especially since I still get laid
>>35018888dang. way to put things in perspective. you are right.
>>35018884just send her a cringey confession on social media. you are acting like she died but you literally both still exist.
>>35018888If you're such a likeable guy why would it be hard to find a source of income and a place to stay? Do you just not want to lift a finger for anything besides sex?
>>35018835Girls flirt mindlessly when they are feeling horny. I was just walking down the street when a Costa Rican schoolgirl pulled her shirt up and began gyrating her hips around after seeing me. Does that mean she likes me or is interested in me? Fuck no, she's just feeling horny and daring, so she expresses her desire in the presence of a man because it excites her to be so bold. Making a move in this case would be downright stupid, but I'm always chickenshit when it comes to approaching, so the opportunity passes and then it's one more round with Jack Mehoff.
I kick myself but I was only 12 so I try not to be too hard on my younger self
>>35018835You just have to realize that this happens to everyone to at least some small degree. I am in my 30s and it was only fairly recently that I realized the really pretty and nice little girl wasn’t just randomly everywhere I was and nice to everyone else like that. We met in maybe 6th grade, knew each other through high school and were sideline friends most of the time, I guess just by the proximity that I autistically assumed to be random chance (why would a cute AND nice girl want to be around me like that? Surely random chance)I grew up and I’m married now to a different lady who I love and wouldn’t leave for anything outside extremes on her part. Because of that, I think it’s easy for me to not dwell. I do kick myself a little when I remember what a cool little gf and sidekick I would have had if I could have paid more attention now, though.
>>35018835drugs and alcohol.
>>35018981Thinking back, there was also this rich girl in one of my classes who went way out of her way to hunt down my weird favorite candy (the sweet tarts chews, not the chewy sweet tarts but the ones that come packaged like laffy taffy. can’t fuckin’ find it anywhere). She had almost an entire backpack full of them and I was like>oh damn thanks!and that was it. Being attractive but autistic is a weird life experience.
>>35018835This >>35018836. You can suffer thinking and rethinking about it as much as you need, but at the end of the day the only thing you can do is learn from it and try to do better next time.Talking from my own experience.
>>35018943she is married and pregnant now bro lol, she has been married for a few years. she probably doesnt even remember i exist
>>35018884I loved a girl when I was in junior high.She was kind to me when I was a hideous acne freak and asked me to dance with her after a different girl rejected me.She later ended up pregnant in 9th grade.Then I lost touch with her.She died sometime in her mid 20s.I never even knew until I was looking her up.I had hoped to thank her for her kindness.Sadly...it was too late.I still love her to this day.I always will.I have never known anyone like her since.Nobody who resembled her in body, mind, or spirit.She was a true 10/10. She was beautiful. Legendarily beautiful.I wish I had died instead.The world needs her even now.It will never need me.
>>35018836This. You look at it as a lesson and move on. That's all you can do. The same girl probably doesn't even feel the same anymore. You've gotta find the one that does and shoot your shot
idk weed probablythis girl gave me ALL the hints, layed down on my lap, did the eye pic trick to get closer, sat with me for hours inside my car and i didn't do shitwe still talk but she moved countriesfuck now I gotta smoke
Pussy is everywhere young blood. Why you tripping over one hoe
>be oblivious and bad with women through high school and college>actually start dating>get lucky and marry a qt>tell her about my experiences in high school and college>she points out all the obvious signals i was getting from girls but was too oblivious to pick up on
>>35020079>>35020147what if i’ve had very little interactions with the opposite sex since turning 13? what do i do then? i can guarantee you my (still) avoidant ass did not have any opportunities like this, because i was and still am that terrified of rejection
If she really loved me she would have persisted until she got me.
>>35018835learn your lesson and try with another girl. recognize those signs the next time they show up, and also realize that shooting your shot as soon as you're interested and getting your answer asap is way better that pining for one girl forever and not doing anything about it.>>35021446normal people lose interest when they don't get the response they want. not everyone gets oneitis.
