>Be me, 18, male>Met a really pretty girl a few weeks ago>Has minimal social media presence, great relationship with her dad, is respectful, doesn’t have any male friends >We become friends>She trusts me heavy stuff about her life and I do too>Start hanging out and texting almost daily>Im now getting annoyed by herHey anons, what should I do? This girl is really sweet and genuinely beautiful, but her mere presence is starting to annoy the fuck out of me. The only thing that doesn’t annoy me about her is her dog, and ngl I’m starting to hate that fucker too. This is not the first time that something similar has happened to me. Usually, when I meet a girl and form a connection with her, I get annoyed and end up blocking them and avoiding them irl, I don’t want to do the same with this girl, but you tell me.
>>35019274block her
>>35019274Say you 'need some space' and stop hanging out with her. If you're dating, break up
>>35019274I remember an episode of House where a man took drugs to dumb himself down so he could tolerate his wife. So maybe start doing that, IDK.
>>35019627lmao
>>35019274that seems to be a you problem, maybe you should work on it if you want to have healthy relationships in the future
You need to give more details if you want real advice. What specifically is she doing that annoys you? Did she share too much heavy info and does she continue to add to it or reference it? Or something else? What is she doing that irks you
>>35019638Well, yeah, she shared way too much about her traumatic experiences, addictions (some of which she still has to this day) and treats me like her personal therapist, dumping all the shit of her life on my shoulders as if it were my responsibility. Also, she is extremely clingy and hyperactive. Let me know if you need more details.
>>35019651That's sufficient detail to say yes, you should dump her. She's likely great in bed but this relationship is not gonna be a fun onr
>>35019660Thanks. What's the best way to dump her?
>>35019666That depends on many things like the level of access she has to you and whether you think she will act out over the breakup or not. Do you anticipate drama when you cut it off? Does she have access to any valuable items of yours or can she hurt your reputation?
>>35019673She has been in my house. Worst case scenario, she scratches my car or breaks a window,however, I doubt she would do anything against me. She never did anything regarding the people that hurt her.
>>35019679dont be a faggot just block her and dont overthink it
>>35019679You gotta tell her something. Perhaps give it the corporate flavor that girls do in the same situation. Something about it's been fun but ultimately you don't think you're compatible. If you can get her to think the split is her idea that's the cleanest, but that would entail making yourself somehow less attractive to her. I don't have any magic bullet ideas for the breakup text, but I do think it should be a text or a call, not an in person meet-up. At the end of the day, you said it's only been a few weeks, so you guys don't share children or longterm plans or much of anything. Which means you don't owe her any grand gestures. But you should likely tell her it's run its course.
>>35019706Thanks, anon. I'll do that (try to make it seem like it is her idea).
>>35019274Women are weird, aren't they? You spend loads and loads of time with them and they somehow get the idea you like them.
>>35019651Is she in therapy and/or on medication?It also seems like clingy or affectionate girls are just not your type. It's not really that big of a deal.
>>35019274You sure you're not BPD or some mentally ill fuck? What's the reason for this anyway?
>>35019274If you're meeting pretty girls and after you form a meaningful connection with them you don't take the next step because they 'annoy' you, that's probably because you're gay, anon.
>>35019274yo i can feel you man, i am in the same position my girl is so annoying and boring but i am lazy to break up with her. i am thinking about breaking up after one day after my birthday so i could get gifts from her lol.
>>35019274Since it's not the first time then you are the problem dude,bro even the dog is annoying the living shit out of you so it's defenitely not a 100% clingy/ obssessive girl situation. You probably do not know how to manage your time nor your energy around women. Hanging out and texting daily is almost unnatural such accessibility is not normal it'll eventually bore you out and annoy you. Take a break for now, dont force shit and it's ok to be awkward to a certain point at that age desu
