my childhood best friend and i have recently started talking again these past few months. we've been hanging out and calling almost everyday usually for about 7-9 hours and its genuinely been the only happiness ive felt in a very long time. just thinking about spending more time with her is enough motivation to get me through my day and i think it's safe to say that i love this girl to death and want to pursue a life with her. the problem is i really can't tell if she feels the same way as she's extremely shy and emotionally contained, the type that you would have to make the first move on, only i'm worried that if i do that it would fuck up everything that we have if she were to say no. are there any indirect ways for me to find out if shes interested without potentially losing my best friend? i don't mind normal flirting and teasing i just don't want to look like a retard and ruin everything by doing so. also should i be worried if she has like 1-2 other guy friends that she drinks with sometimes? (though they're her brothers friends plus she spends more time with me anyway.) i really need her bad bros i can't go back to the way things were before. shes all i got left
>>35019713>we've been hanging out and calling almost everyday usually for about 7-9 hoursYou are her girlfriend.>she has like 1-2 other guy friends that she drinks with sometimesThese are her boyfriends.
>>35019713>they're her brothers friendsProlly means they ain't up to much. You will regret not making a move far more than the opposite.
>>35019713Act like it is a thing and it will be so.
Stop talking on the phone for extended periods like that. Meet her irl and fuck her or you are just going to end up tortured in a gay simp orbiter relationship
"you miss all the shots you dont take per defaultlive a life without regret, one or the other way">everyday usually for about 7-9 hours and its genuinely been the only happiness ive felt in a very long time>just thinking about spending more time with her is enough motivation to get me through my dayhave you told her that? like upfront? i mean dont tell us that, tell HER that....the childhood friend, best in person.also talking that long on the phone sure fries your brain. i never talk more than 15 mins and feel really dizzy.>are there any indirect wayshave you been to her home, recently? have you seen her parents? maybe "hangout" some time at her place and catch her parents in a peaceful moment (when shes absent) or ask if you could help with some chores in the household (or car drive some shopping bags, help with the helloween decorations, idk get creative) and ask if they could tell you how they say how she feels towards you at home, just out of "curiousity"? idk i butchered the meaning of what i wanted to say prolly. but you get what i mean?>extremely shy and emotionally containedcan you tell us what astro/zodiac sign she is, if you know, per chance? knowing this will make formulating a good answer/response sentence for you way easier. if shes mid january-mid february for example, an aquarius, N-E-V-E-R just go for a kiss without really making them comprehend what you are intending to do and getting their good will/clearance b4 hand. i speak from experience (heart is an ice block). freedom and liberty are our alpha and omega.>i really need her badthat sounds and comes off as extremely needy, lets hope she doesnt dislike thatsince you are such a needy lil boy ill post even a chart for dummies
>>35021233gay
>>35024712condolences
