My mom abandoned me for several years and made me live with my abusive grandparents and now as an adult I have abandonment issues and constantly worry about my friends leaving me and want reassurance from them. I have enough of a handle on it now that (the vast majority of the time) I keep it to myself and act rationally, but the worries are still there in my mind. How do I unfuck myself?
>>35020274It's a process man. No one gets over it too quick, after all, you lived through it for who knows how long. But you need to try your best to tell yourself that people aren't gonna leave you for no reason. They are with you because they like you, no one is forcing them to hang out with you.
imagine believing in psychology like this lol. You are who you are. Your issues have nothing to do with your childhood its all genetics
>>35020280>abusing children doesn't affect their psycheSounds like something a child abuser would say
>>35020290Or someone who had an abusive childhood and didnt let it fuck them up because they refuse to buy into jewish theories of the mind
>>35020292>didnt let it fuck them upIDS DA JOOOOOOOZ
>>35020292>>35020280You can't just le man up and stop symptoms of trauma and stress like shivering, voiding your bowels, headaches, or difficulty sleeping. These are physical problems, and all you can really do is hold faith in the idea that time heals all wounds. But in the end you'll never get all the time you spend as a broken person back.
>>35020292I guarantee you are fucked up in several ways
You basically have to push through and resist the urge to find relief when worry crops up. Whenever your mind tells you you "need" reassurance you remind yourself it's Bs and keep on going
