My girlfriend has a huge vibrating wand, a dildo, and just purchased some shit that mimics being eaten out. NGL, I am pretty insecure about it. I have fucked around 20 other women and have been able to make all but a few of them orgasm. Apparently, I have never made my girlfriend orgasm and the vibrator can make her orgasm 10 times in 20 minutes. How the hell am I supposed to compete with this thing? I feel like I am being cucked by a tesla robot. I told her I think she is getting pavlov dog'd by the vibrator to where she cant cum from regular sex. She responded that she still thinks I am better than it and loves having sex with me, but idk women are chronic liars so. I am still able to make her squirt, but its different. And also, I think vibrators are hot, but this thing is some huge device and she uses it a lot when I am not with her. I think if the roles were reversed and I was suffering from porn induced ED from a sex robot death gripping my dick, she would feel insecure or desu think im gay or some shit but I would still tell her I love having sex with her as of course I would, even though its not as good as it could be if I wasn't fucking a tesla bot.
>>35022532When I look at other forums (plebbit) you have the typical feminist lib shit saying:>her body her choice nah nigger its my body when im fucking it (and my body is hers at the same time)and shit like >men are bad at sex and the only solution was a vibrating device invented in the past 0.001% of human existence and for 99.999% of humans alive, women have never been able to cum ever as men are inherently evil. I think all that shit is retarded as again, if the roles were reversed, it would still be the mans fault (IK this is the situation for most problems). My current solution is telling her to simply not use it unless if I am there and to just use her hands or something otherwise. Maybe even break the cable or something in secret? IDFK. Truly, this is the first time I have been in this sort of situation. I feel like if I bring it up, she will think I am a bitch or get mad. IDC I will still have a talk, I just need some advice on how to approach this.
>>35022532Also, she gets chronic UTIs after sex but not after using this thing. I have a hypothesis that the sex toys are changing her vaginal microbiome and this vibrator is causing microtrauma to her skin as it is so extreme to where when we do have sex together, it increases the likelihood of a UTI by a lot as my dick acts as a piston pushing her own bacteria into her. This causes a feedback loop where she is anxious to have regular sex due to UTI risk, so she relies on the artificial toys that make her cum faster than any man could, while also increasing her risk for UTIs.Like think about it- you are using this crazy vibration and pushing it hard against the most delicate part of your body. It definitely would cause some sort of micro-tears. And the synthetic material cant be good either as:>It is some sort of porous material that is hard to clean> the vibration weakens the material over time> it leaches itself into you which changes the ph and shit IDK man maybe I am wayyyy over thinking.
no, you just sound like a misogynist who’s bad at sex. wash your dick more and learn to be a more generous lover. fuck it, use the damn wand on her yourself.
>>35022576kys nigger. half the time we are intimate, I am not even fucking her as I am focusing solely on her needs. I can't cum if my partner isnt into it. The UTIs have nothing to do with my dick as she said it is a problem she has had for a long time (with her past) before we ever had sex. The fact you called me a misogynist is enough to know you're retarded.
>>35022564How often are you washing your crotch and dick my dude? You're literally the most obvious cause-effect here for UTIs.
>>35022613No, the literature has shown that for women with rUTI's, they themselves are the problem. The bacteria comes from them and there is a correlation between the space between the vagina and anus and having this condition. I have never been with a woman who has had this problem.And, like I said here >>35022612 she told me about this issue before we ever had sex in the first place. She has antibiotics prescribed from her gyno that she had before we even started dating.
>>35022613>>35022576[https://www.health.harvard.edu/diseases-and-conditions/did-my-partner-get-her-bladder-infection-from-me#:~:text=Q.%20If%20a%20woman%20develops%20a%20bladder,to%20the%20skin%20in%20the%20surrounding%20area.](Did my partner get her bladder infection from me?)I know it sounds kinda weird and for a stranger on the internet, it would seem as if he is the problem, but I swear it has nothing to do with me.
>>35022625also ik this isn't a "peer reviewed" paper but, it does a good job getting the gist of what I am trying to say. Only once in my life a girl I was with got a UTI after being with me while we were camping for 5 days without a shower, but with my current GF, she has to take low-dose antibiotic pills and some probiotic drink before we even have sex. IDK you are all not even focusing on the point of this thread anyways.
>>35022532The only option is to buy a silicone ass on Amazon.
>>35022666True, I might buy a silicon ass with a superrr tight pussy and get addicted to it to the point I can't cum with anything else, just to show her how it makes me feel
>>35022688Get an onahole and make out with your gf while you both crank it. Solution found.
>>35022532Dump her as soon as her tits become saggy, your body your choice, you decide who you're in a relationship with.
>>35022532if it were me i'd tell her to only have sex with me and I would do the same, no masturbating no porn. whenever we're horny we just do it with eachother, or we don't at all. but she's not going to do that because she's a whore, like most of them. at least it is not other men you know of, yet, but robots.second option >>35022688but you may just create a new problem.
>>35022649I mean thanks for the education but you're not asking a question or for any concrete advice, you're just venting, which is fine, i agree with your point.At the same time, the Reddit talking points still stand albeit in a slightly different way - she will choose whether to use toys or not. I forbade my ex of 5 years from using toys, they are too good, call me insecure whatever (maybe you won't specifically) but it's incomparable.Anyway, I think you've identified the real problem yourself. It's not the toys, it's the chronic issue with getting infections after you have sex. This can only be solved by a doctor dude. Not by people off 4chan.
>>35023156>>35023156I want to make it so she cant use the toys. I think the UTI thing was just another possible reason to not use them. We have it sort of figured out with her antibiotics and shit, its not like we dont have sex or anything. How did you go about telling your ex not to use them? My gf says that they are friends not enemies and she needs to just make me understand them. Like bitch, I understand them trust me, I just do not get any satisfaction from the fact you need them.
Maybe you should try it yourself. See where she's coming from
>>35022532>Apparently, I have never made my girlfriend orgasm and the vibrator can make her orgasm 10 times in 20 minutes.Some women are just built like that. My girlfriend had never orgasmed before I bought a hitatchi and jackhammered that clit for 15 mins. She still prefers normal sex with me even without orgasming so don't overthink this.
>>35022576Sex "toys" are for worthless trashy foids who have ZERO value. Even thinking about getting one earns every woman a justified beating.
>>35022532Those toys are what you want. They help a woman find what works for them and what activates their g-spot.
I would tell her that only I can use it, on her, during sex, and I'm going to robo-fuck her if she likes it that much.
It depends on if she can't come without it. A lot of medications do that to you. I wouldn't worry. For a lot of women sex is more about the sensual stuff like kissing and heavy petting and all that. Just be romantic and pretend you love her.
>>35022564Tell her to take a piss after yall fuck thats 100% why
>>35024935you must be 18 to post here
>>35022532How pathetic would you have to be to feel threatened by a piece of plastic? Can a vibrator take her in its arms? Can it kiss her neck? Can it murmur "I love you so much"? Can it stare into her eyes? Can it reassure her when she's scared, celebrate with her when she's happy, and share post-orgasmic bliss? Can it kiss her fit an hour and then carry her upstairs? Really, if something is capable of making her come repeatedly and intensely, the solution is to use it on her as part of sex until she begs for mercy, not be frightened of it. And if she masturbates when you're not around, that's good: it means she's horny and you're not going to end up with a dead bedroom. Your priorities are just hopelessly screwed up.
>>35022532It can ruin her sensitivity
>>35025819Almost no one on 4chan is capable of loving a woman much less being romantic so I wouldn't be surprised if he's just jackhammering her and she's bored out of her mind
>>35022532use the vibrator on her as you fuck her.tell her you want to feel her pussy quiver on your cock as she orgasms from the vibrator. damn bro this is so easy
>>35023661>>35023661>How did you go about telling your ex not to use them?My girlfriend was a virgin and I took her virginity and I had a few long relationships before her so I laid down the ground with rules right at the beginning - no hanging out with the other gender one on one, and you have to have me and not toys. The toy issue didn't come up until way later though, she just never contested it because i was giving it to her good all day every day. Until later in the relationship when I didn't give it to her good all day every day and then she voiced a little bit of want for toys but she's been trained so well that she understood where I was coming from. So these wants were just little voices and not serious demands.I'm afraid that it's a Pandora's box that you can't go back from. She's a whole person. You thought mules are stubborn? Humans will fake a personality their entire life just to hold up a specific position. You see it all around you.Easy for me to say but I would say, either accept it or try to find a girl who isn't spoiled by toys. I'm sure those girls exist. The ones who didn't feel the need to find them.
>>35025914What color is your lamborghini ass post. Are you also bald and have a recessed chin?
>>35026085I'm not bragging if that's what you're getting at, I'm saying that it's a first serious relationship type of thing, i consider her my first serious long term relationship, and there are some things you don't commonly find outside of that first.
>>35026116Im OP (this guy >>35026085 isnt) and I see what you are saying. I think a lot of people on this forum dont have a lot of experience with relationships and I think out of everyone, you have been the most insightful. I appreciate all of your responses. In my other relationships, I have never had this sex toy problem. I actually bought one of my ex's her vibrator and told her only I can use it. DESU I think at this point I am just going to use it on her as there is nothing else I can do. I will see if she can just take a break from it though. I am not 100% anti vibrator, its just I dont want that to be the only way she can orgasm.She actually told me she was going to buy me a toy that like is really tight around my dick but desu I would hate that shit.
>>35025914Plus, I just thought of this, if she used her vibrator with a different dude.... thats gotta go.
