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people tell me to quit porn, because its warping my views of reality, but i wonder if instagram/socials like that might be even worse for my psyche than porn, because porn is something i choose to go to the dark corners of the internet to do sometimes and i know its in fantasy. instagram is filled with sluts alluding to porn and making it seem normal to me, blended in with some people i actually know. tiny clips doing depraved things that stick in my head even when im away from the phone/computer, and a lot of them are obviously AI, but I dont know whats real anymore.

like, am i missing out on this world of sex-crazed zoomies just because im not hot or bold enough or have a big enough dick? are women really out there fucking their guy friends as a normal thing, a situationship (while cheating on their bfs), having them forced into surprise bjs, pumpkin-hole blowjobs, licking starbucks cream off their fingers, etc? Surely some are. with how shameless everyone is now, even if it started as an actress/AI trend, surely more and more are mimicking these and not catching any consequences from it, or she's enjoying it.

I cant just be away from the porn, its everywhere now. I don't think I'm actually addicted, but even if i were what would some therapist be able to do to revert me? Tell me its all lies and not how society really operates, while I know she herself is or was one of the whores like that for her chads?

never watched Drive btw. should I?
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I would quit social media.
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>>35022900
>never watched Drive btw. should I?
yeah it’s pretty good
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>>35022900
Instagram is brain rot and so is porn they both ruin people just in different ways. Instagram and other social media warps people's self esteem, it creates illusory social expectations because everyone posting is performative and faking their lives at worst. At best they're showing genuine highlights of their life but that's all they'll post. The ugly and stressful and shameful aspects of their lives are never posted, so it gives users the impression that life should only be super pro-social and happy happy chill live laugh love sort of dog shit. It harms women's psyches more than men's usually, social media is porn for women. And you already know what porn does. It turns your natural sex drive into a dopamine farm and exploits the shit out of your reward seeking behaviours and loops it into a perpetual game of chase your own tail aka always run to jerk sessions every time you feel stress. It keeps men complacent and weak.

You're consuming both types of brain rot. This means you are hooked to sluts in porn. The most attention starved whores in social media know that men do this and they will deliberately imitate it or provoke that for attention on their socials. The two platforms play off of each other and if you're caught in the middle you will be 100% convinced that it's all of reality and everything is like that.

Understand the tricks of your own mind and how easy it is to feel convinced of false realities. The truth is what you're seeing is just one aspect of reality, what you see is true. But it's not the only type of life. Many more people don't indulge in either shit and if you want to become a part of that layer of society you need to put down the damn phone.



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