Continued..

She now is fully locked down and I feel like she trying to find a way out. Every conversation with her is stilted and has no substance.
I ask how work was, before I got some work gossip now I just get barley an answer. We usually read and doom scrolled before bead now she goes in an hour before me and is just doom scrolling alone and if I join I don't feel welcome. I have more examples but it's just all the small things.

This might be a lost cause but I'm not willing to give up yet. Is this just the normal "honeymoon phase is over" and things get stilted? Am I overreacting? I just don't want to fuck this up.

She's an extremely low value foid and her eggs are rapidly becoming nonviable. Kick her out and find a new one that's 10 years younger

>>35022972
>But she wants to go and do things, and we do go for walks/hikes/movies and events, but rarely. And gets mad/sad that I'm tiered and not 100% hyper wen doing those things.
>The other day she had a fallout calming I never take her serious and she always have to cry for things to change, this as far as I can remember has happened 2 times. Accused me of treating her like a teenager basically. She holds 9 month old conversations above my head and taking things out of context. The other day she came randomly and asked me "You said family comes first once, what did you mean by that?" and I had to explain that I love my family and would prioritize them over some things as they would do for me. I have told her that I don't feel welcome in my apartment anymore since I have to choose my battles and I have to walk on egg shells to not disturb the peace, you can imagen how well that went.
I think they're just like that, feel free to keep searching but they're mostly just like that. Women have low self-awareness so it is impossible for them to conceptualize that they are being irrational by bringing up a conversation from six months ago as evidence of your misdeeds. You probably don't even remember it because it wasn't important but that just pisses her off even more. You are stuck doing the things she thinks you like to do with her because the things you actually like to do don't involve her but she likes to be involved and she thinks your life began when you started dating (thus the only experience she has with you doing things is things you did with her). Asking stupid but complicated questions like "what do you think about my family" while you have one hand on the doorknob with the trash in the other.
Yep that's just how it is. There's a reason boomers called them "the ol' ball and chain har har har".

>>35022972
She's only 35 you pedophile

>>35022972
You're a bit too good for her from that description.
But it's also tough to find a new mate and you already bonded.
Most relationship problems come from communication discrepancies, try reading up about the four sides model/four ears model.
Always try to communicate with "I-messages" and tell her that you validate her feelings while simultaneously talking to her about what you're concerned about.

If she's not self reflective at all you can and should dump her. If she's willing to talk then there's more than enough opportunities to get back into a great mood between you two.
Also stop doom scrolling together, just watch some anime together or play a game. It Takes Two, Orbitals etc. are good. Earth Defense Force is also a fun co-op game if both of you aren't scared of insects/spiders

>>35022972
>I feel like it is naggin her from the inside and this is the beginning of the end.
It is
>To fill in the blanks she does nothing around the house, I cook/ clean/ laundry. I work a 9-5 job every weekday and sometimes overtime, she works shifts and there is no pattern to day/evening/nightshift so sometimes she has 3 days at home and does nothing but watch TV.
That’s all women
>She holds 9 month old conversations above my head and taking things out of context.
That’s normal
>The other day she came randomly and asked me "You said family comes first once, what did you mean by that?"
She wants a baby retard
>But I do have my flaws, my hobby was precent in every room (Board games/ painted miniatures) I have sold a part of my collection and moved a part of it into the basement. But that is not enough...
Cucked
>We usually read and doom scrolled before bead now she goes in an hour before me and is just doom scrolling alone and if I join I don't feel welcome.
I don’t scroll so this is pathetic to me, my girl scrolls and I never miss a chance to tell her how bad the content is

She’s over it and you should be too, take what you learned here and do the next relationship better but you also need to reality check because women are trying to get pregnant, not just hang out, esp as they get older. Sounds like she was going to become a bitch either way.