As a single male with my own place how do get a gf when I have no social media or friends?
You need a social life to get the opportunities to make friends and meet women. Find a social hobby and get out there.
Go up to foids and ask them to be gf
>>35026981So how do I get a social life?
>>35026953>no social mediaGreen flag>no friendsThe important thing about friends is not just opportunities to meet women, but it means spending time with humans who aren't your gf. Even if we take this as 100% goal focused on getting a gf, how are you supposed to talk to her if you hate talking otherwise? Etc.
>>35026953plenty of women see no social media as a green flag. no friends is a huge red flag though and honestly more important to work on than getting a gf. take classes for one of your interests, go to hobby groups for things you like to do, look for events in your area that seem interesting. also learning small talk is pretty important, it may seem scary but it's surprisingly easy to talk to normalfags and get them to like you.
>>35027021>>35027079How do I get friends then?
>>35027086>>35027079>take classes for one of your interests, go to hobby groups for things you like to do, look for events in your area that seem interesting. also learning small talk is pretty important, it may seem scary but it's surprisingly easy to talk to normalfags and get them to like you.
>>35027152I live In a small town with none of those things
>>35027165Move, nigga
>>35027168No I'm poor
>>35027193You're fucked (in the ass)
>>35027079>it may seem scary but it's surprisingly easy to talk to normalfags and get them to like you.This. It's actually shocking.
>>35027193Your problem is you're lazy and boring.
>>35027213Ok give me tips please
>>35026994Like I said, you have to get social hobbies. If you're fit, go to a run club. Go golfing or disc golfing. Play an adult rec league sport. Volunteer at an animal shelter or a library. Dance classes. Board game clubs. Literally do anything except stay in your room all day.
>>35027226Yeah lol>>35027254My town has none of these
>I don't date, have friends, or even know how to talk to people>but no it's not my fault you see I live in a SMALL TOWNFuck off OP, this line of cope is pathetic.
>>35027228Face this fear you have without waiting for it to disappear.
>>35026953It doesn't make sense, but once you have a GF, many other women will sense it and throw themselves at you.Shoot for an average looking girl. Don't text her a lot. Give her time to text back, even if it's a few days. Never show too much interest until she texts back.You may like the mid girl, but even if you don't, just dating her will put you on other women's radar.
>>35027446That sounds mean
>>35027504Everyone needs practice. I never said to treat her like shit or anything. I said you might end up liking her too.
>>35027509I'd rather just date I girl I liked
>>35027517Well go do that then. Stop being a pussy and go crack a joke or something.
How does one make friends? I'm in the same boat as OP but have no idea what to do or where to go. I don't want to sit at home all day but I genuinely have no idea where to start turning things around. I do have a job and go to the gym
>>35027446Or you can just love yourself and carry your chest high.
>>35027079> it may seem scary but it's surprisingly easy to talk to normalfags and get them to like you.Not OP, but I just can't figure this out. I go out to social event 2-3 times a week, but still no idea how to talk with people.
