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I'm a loser? Well, I've been a lonely person since I was little, Little girls and little boys when I was growing up made friends and I just didn't have any friends, In adolescence I tried to make friends and force myself into a more extroverted personality but even if I tried and made some friends it didn't work, Most of those friends betrayed me or stopped talking to me, Now that I've grown up I'm lonely and depressed and things aren't going well in my life, my depression has made me useless.

I have an addiction to the Internet, I'm on the Internet all day and I don't even leave my house or my room, I want friends but it's too hard for me and I've tried several times, they always ignore me (﹏)

Let me know an answer, I need some advice as well
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>>35027583
How about actually get involved and do something instead of trying to pester other people with your hollow and empty meaningless trite life in a desperate attempt to "have friends" as if friends are a status symbol and not just something that naturally arises from proximity and closeness/alignment in activities/goals

Get a job you bum then go from there, maybe you'll make a friend there. Get better first otherwise you'll just find other loser friends that enable promote perpetuate validate your loser existence
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It's really hard for me to socialize, and about work or going out or doing activities I don't really know anyone, I just have virtual friends and it would be embarrassing to go out and do something if I'm alone.

You may be right to get a job, but I also don't have the motivation or the ability to make an effort to get out of my room.
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How many times have you actually tried making real friends in the last few years?
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>>35027692
>it would be embarrassing to go out and do something if I'm alone.

So? That shouldn't stop you.

>I also don't have the motivation or the ability to make an effort to get out of my room.

Actually you do cuz otherwise you'd be pissing and shitting in your room



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