> have gf for year > likes the same things as me> is younger and sexy> rich family > kind and tolerates my political views > everything seems completely perfect> 2 weeks ago> suddenly invents a story that 3 people are following her substack > these are 2 people who stalked my ex wife, and 1 of my friends> no evidence other than them following her seems suspicious timing > accounts look nothing like them and have been running for 5+ years> gets angry when challenged , doubles down> proposes to me randomly It's over isn't it. She's got to be bipolar. Too good to be true. Was contemplating marrying her before all this happened but I can't be married to someone bipolar.
>>35027886If she's actually bipolar, medication can help. But if she were, I don't think it would have taken you an entire year to notice.
>>35027886Well does it matter that they're following her substack (if it were true)? She thinks she's getting stalked or sthn?
>>35027917yeah the two people were people who relentlessly stalked my wife when we were together. she's concluded that from two randoms following her after we got together that they are those two people. But she's hard committed despite no evidence, their profiles have been going for years before we got together. shes talked about going to the police about it. the third person is a friend whom she's just decided she can't trust and that my friend wants to be with me. writing it down makes it sound less unhinged but it's coupled with getting 0 sleep and still being full of energy. talking really fast and going off on completely unrelated tangents randomly.
>>35027925Well these beliefs are technically falsifiable, find out if the accounts are those people or not, and find out if the friend actually wants to be with you or not. Then tell her you don't want retarded babies so you're gonna find someone else to be with.
>>35027993already done brah they aren't them and she's off her rocker. just sucks because we were great before she turned nuts.