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Can you have a satisfying life and find happiness if you can't form or keep relationships? How?
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I genuinely am curious as well. Bump. I feel like you need to have some value in this world for people to treat you like a human. It sucks ass.
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>>35029312
>if you can't form or keep relationships?
Most people are faking their relationships out of anxiety and societal pressure. Learn to not rely on most people, because most people are in fact pretty unreliable and will let you down in the long run. I cut most people out after college, I’ve been out of their heads and they’ve been out of mine for years. I live a quiet life focusing on myself and my family, exploring my thoughts through meditation and the occasional 4chan/reddit scrolling. I would say it varies by person because a satisfying life for me can absolutely be an empty and depressing one for someone else.
My girlfriend of 6 years is the same way so I’d say yes, you can have a satisfying life.
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>>35029312
If you ain't forming and maintaining relations then what are you doing instead? Scrolling? Staring at wall (oh sorry- I meant screen)?
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>>35029822
Most hobbies are in the same category as "staring at a wall" and it's extremely cringe to pretend otherwise. "Staring at a screen" isn't any different from "staring at a musical instrument" or other gay cope shit.
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>>35029312
Hard to, given that genes associated with being happy only by forming relationships seem to get selected. It's also why the future of humanity is going to feature a lot more female worship, a lot more simpery and a lot more gynocracy
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>>35030634
>isn't any different from
Never said it was.
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you can either get lost in escapism (books, anime, movies etc.)
or accept you need to speak to people to be happy in life in which case you need to quit your job and go to school again, save up money until you can quit your job go to uni again and speak to people there
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>>35029312
Only if you're schizoid
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>>35030969
not op but I am a schizoid and still wish I was accepted and had relationships. It's more like a quiet envy while being totally incompetent at socialization. Similar in function to autistic seething, very different in origin/ root cause.



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