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I was talking to my Chad cousin and told me most women cheat and the tips he gave me with women involve manipulation tactics

I do believe in true love though, it doesn't happen often but I believe it's real, am I being naive?

I would rather be single that indulge in hook ups or manipulate people so my dilema is more about whether or not true love exists or are people going to cheat eventually
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He's wrong. Also he is no Chad, he is just a pretender.
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As someone whose dated 20+ women I’m 31, only 2 didn’t cheat. I ain’t chad tho so fake it how you like.

IMO, yeah they do. For the right guy
And if some bluepill fags say
>yeah well I’m not chad and I never got -
Yeah that’s what you think bud
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If most of the women he knows cheat the problem is him
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>>35030560
found the woman
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>>35030430
Colton larping as me. Ignore
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>>35030558
Colton attempt to normalize horrid behavior to incetivize not leaving him and lessen the perceived fault of his lies
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>>35030539
Indeed. Chan need not manipulate to get pussy. He is correct most women will cheat. The only reason stopping them is her tryst may be disclosed by the man she fucks on the side. Women are very capable at compartmentalizing. Her cheating persona is totally separate from her relationship persona. The can wildly fuck chad come home without guilt and a bf or husband none the wiser. Her fear is a side man will become possessive and make demands and pierce her relationship bubble. All you have to do is let them know sex has no strings attached and it can be once or ongoing and she can let go, enjoy sex without judgement. All those things she imagined or heard her friends discuss or taught to her by a man that knows how to fuck she gets to experience. Then she goes home and tucks that away down deep. If she knows these things she will arrange the tryst.
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>>35030578
None of that is true. If she fucks around then she loses me forever and can rot. Do better or fuck off.
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>>35030583
It is true. I'm a side guy. But the reality is you will never know. Men cannot hide the fact they did something wrong and a woman can see it in your eyes. Women on the other hand can and know so long as you believe nothing is different (not difficult by the way) then nothing is different. Point is many women in relationships invest their time and energy with a partner they are determined to keep but still want freak on the side and more than capable of pulling it off. You will never know unless she wants you to know.
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>>35030430
They've done studies on this. Around 12% of women cheat, and around 25% of men.
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>>35030430
Think your cousin just has bad luck and/or his 'manipulation' tactics only pull him shit women.
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>>35030430

First thing is you need to find a decent quality women with the right moral programming. The more important second thing is you have to maintain your value. She'll never cheat on you as long as you're worth something to OTHER women. Don't get fat, dont get lazy, learn how to fuck the way she likes. No one wants to be loyal to a fat loser that other women turn their noses up at.
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>>35030558
>As someone whose dated 20+ women I’m 31, only 2 didn’t cheat.
That says some really bad things about you.
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>>35030430
>I was talking to my Chad cousin and told me most women cheat and the tips he gave me with women involve manipulation tactics
Chads do not need to resort to manipulation, and they don't get cheated on. Your cousin is no Chad. He gets cheated on *because* he has to rely on manipulation. Manipulation can get a woman into bed, but it can't prevent her from wanting someone else. When you get a woman without needing to resort to manipulation, she will most likely be faithful.

>I do believe in true love though, it doesn't happen often but I believe it's real, am I being naive?
Love is real; "True Love™"' is not. So yes, you're being naive.
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>>35030615
women cheat about 1 out of every 8 times when presented with the opportunity
men cheat about 1 out of every 4 times when presented with the opportunity.
the difference is women get 8 opportunities every day and men get 4 a year
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>>35030715
No. 12% of women cheat, 25% of men cheat.

If you want to bring opportunities into it, that makes women look even better.
Of the 75% of men who don't cheat, a large fraction of them would if they had the chance, but they don't have an opportunity to; of the 88% of women who don't cheat, all of them have the opportunity to and turn it down.
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>>35030665
>t. Foidlet
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>>35030597
Sounds like you are just a shit person and involve yourself with shit people. I'll choose my girl , just as I have, and someway this works out in our favor.
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>>35030615
>>35030630
Oh look I'm right. Not surprised.
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>>35030760
T.not a narc like you who makes up lies to convince others to be garbage people
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>>35030676
True love is real but incredibly rare.
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>>35030726
>12% of women cheat, 25% of men cheat.
Women lie about it more often than men do. They also have mental gymnastics where "it was on vacation so it doesn't count, it was just a blowjob," etc
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>>35030774
Why is that the case? Not saying I disagree I just find it sad
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Frankly, I don't believe any statistics about this because it is so difficult to measure with any validity. How would this even be verified? Let's just ask and see if a cheater is honest? Some are, sure, but I doubt all would come clean about it even if there was no chance it would get back to their partner. People don't want to think they're evil. Let's strap a camera to them or have them pursued by a drone? It's nonsensical.
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>>35030804
I should add that we can't let shitty odds or patterns of abuse stop us from allowing actual good things into our lives.
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>>35030665
Cheating isn't always warranted by the person who got cheated on. We have exactly zero context for any of those relationships.
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>>35030799
I don't know why God doesn't have everyone meet their soulmate. I don't know why he let mine be tricked and manipulated and we lost 5 years together. I know I found him because of it and learned a lot of lessons, healed past traumas. Still separated from her. I hope we are done with seperation soon.
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>>35030813
Him quoting 18 of 20 cheated is enough context to say he's the problem
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>>35030775
>Women lie about it more often than men do.
The studies don't depend purely on self-reporting. They also do things like asking people whether they've ever been cheated on. They get much the same numbers, regardless of method.

>>35030804
>How would this even be verified?
See above.

>>35030760
>t. Foidlet
Wrong.

>>35030772
>Oh look I'm right
That seems unlikely. About what?

>>35030774
>True love is real
No. It's just extended limerence.

>>35030813
>Cheating isn't always warranted by the person who got cheated on.
Not always, no; but if 18 out 20 partners cheat on someone, then it's not them, it's him. Either he's driving the behaviour, or he's actively selecting only cheating women to date, and the former is much more likely.
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>>35030871
>Either he's driving the behaviour, or he's actively selecting only cheating women to date, and the former is much more likely.
Not him but what sort of behavior would drive someone towards cheating?
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>>35030871
>That seems unlikely. About what?
That anon was right about most girls cheating

>No. It's just extended limerence.
No, sounds like thats the word you want to use to fit your narrative.
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>>35030871
>The studies don't depend purely on self-reporting. They also do things like asking people whether they've ever been cheated on. They get much the same numbers, regardless of method.
That's still self-reporting.
Plus, everyone knows that women have higher standards for mates. Of the 88% of women who don't cheat, a large fraction of them would if they could find a man who's Chad enough. Of the 25% of men who do cheat, they are all Chad enough to be able to do it.
This speaks nothing of a sense of morality, but rather of the opportunities available.



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