When I was 17 I went on a chemistry trip to Costa Rica, it was like a one-month trip that was meant to be educational (counted as a school credit) and experience. The ratio of girls to guys was like 3-1 but I was still too much of an Autistic Incel to get anyone, and the dynamics of girls to guys being so high made it so the girls felt embarrassed talking to any of the guys unless they were one of the two Chads. How was this abuse? Two ways:>No Privacy at allThe hotels were those open concept hotels where the showers and bathrooms are totally visible to the room. I tried to set up some artificial curtain but it was basically impossible. I tried timing shits for when nobody was in the room but it was really hard and often in the days before leaving there was no option except to shit there with others in the room. Although it was forbidden, there were multiple times when I was showering that girls were in the room and could see me naked, of course the two Chads brought them in. One of the guys on the trip, whose dad was the "Principle", said one reason they did this is so people couldn't have sex because if someone got pregnant on the trip it would be horrible PR. One moment that stuck out was when I was showering and the Chadlite made out with one of the Stacies. This brings me to the next way I was abused>Getting cucked into oblivionObviously I'm not entitled to get girls, but the lack of privacy made it so the guys that could get girls had to make out with them in full view of everyone all the time. The Admin put up with it because if they cracked down on kissing, people would be more likely to sneak off for sex. I get traumatized when I see people make out because it is a constant reminder that I'm Incel, and this was unavoidable. It got to the point where Chad was in front of me in line constantly kissing and making out with his girl while I was humilated.I still get flashbacks to the trip, would this constitute abuse?
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>>35052602This is advice.
>>35052610Yes sorry for being retarded
>>35052599You weren't abused you dumbass. People throw that word around like it's nothing. Anyway you just were sexually humiliated at 17. That's something that happens to most teens at some point, even "Chad".
>>35052662How is it not abuse but then what other people experience is abuse?
>>35052662Also how can Chad be humilated because he actually looks good so he would be honoured by the women looking at him.
>>35052688How was i not abused
>>35052672They never touched you or made you look dumbass.
>>35052599>would this constitute abuse?No.Anything else we can help you with?
>>35052825What about when i was shitting and in the shower and they had girls in the room?Imagine if it were the other way around.Also many times it was impossible not to look it was on the bus or in lineups.
>>35052704In every possible way.
>>35052599Abuse is an exaggerationIt was more embarrassing than anything else
This is the most retarded incel fantasy larp I have seen today.
>>35054846How is it a larp or fantasy or retarded?
>>35052599The military is like that lol so are some jails
>>35056287Yeah i know and that's why it was horrific
>>35052599When I was at camp there were no real walls in the shower area, only curtains. We were all boys though
THis is the same OP who posts about once a week about how as a teenager he was once glimpsed in his underwear at a doctor's office and has been traumatised ever since.
>>35052677because you're the dominant male only relatively to the group you're in. I'm doing fine but there's this guy I know I won't hang out with when I'm looking for pussy because I know I won't get a second look after girls see him.even in the same group, dynamics can change over time anyway
>>35064588lol
>>35052599lol anything not to have acountability
>>35052599Be thankful you weren't in juvie or jail. At intake and regularly they'd do a strip search in a group and all the guys had to see each other naked showing every body part
>>35052602Thank you, i was lost
>>35064588Is it a LARP
>>35070125That kind of proves OPs point though.
The problem is the human body literally forgets really traumatic stuff. And also - doesn't?If you can find a counselor you trust maybe explore that with them
