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I don't want to be attracted to guys anymore. Is there any way to stop feeling this way permanently without castrating myself? Serious answers only please
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No.
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>>35062595
Some cocks can’t be unsucked. You gay nigga, accept it
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Maybe give a shot to tomboys
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>>35062704
>some
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>>35062708
I like girls too, that's not an issue. But I want to stop lusting for men entirely
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>>35062595
>Is there any way to stop feeling this way permanently
No.
>Serious answers only please
Okay. Still no.
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>>35062723
Is this for religious reasons or....?
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>>35063118
No. I don't need to be religious to know it's wrong.
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>>35063156
If you're dishonest with us, and/or yourself, you're retarded and not worth helping.
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>>35063378
I'm not being dishonest but ok
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>>35062595
impossible ever since they closed down the GTS
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>35062595
this is a nothingburger. this is the normal state of human...everyone is bisexual. our closest relative (bonobo) are all bisexual and have sex with literally anyone. this isn't a problem whatsoever, just accept it.
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You're bisexual. Just try to relax about it and enjoy life. You don't have to act upon or share your thoughts. Try to find other things to enjoy. That's easier than brainwashing yourself to not find succulent men attractive.

If you're so upset about having any gay thoughts at all, ask yourself why and write down what you think bothers you about it. Then reread it later
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>>35062595
Ivermectin. Gayness is caused by parasites.
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>>35070368
Fasho cuh
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>>35062595
No, I think it's impossible
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>>35062595
nofap works for some
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>>35076163
I'm 8 days into NNN but the thoughts aren't stopping
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Would you like a boyfriend? I love Klonoa and have internalized homophobia too.
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>>35080323
Nice to find another Klonoa fan. But no, if I wanted a boyfriend I wouldn't be asking how to get rid of gay thoughts.
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>>35080343
That's fair. All I can say is I feel your struggle, I don't like that I have gay thoughts either. Especially on our side of the internet its embarrassing and shameful, not to mention if you have family that aren't supportive. But we are who we are. There's no way to change your attraction. Conversion therapy never works, everyone who goes through with it always eventually ends up being gay anyways. You said you were bi which is great, you have more options. The most you can do in your situation is just practice self acceptance and get a nice girlfriend who accepts you as well. Don't hide your bisexuality. A good relationship is based on being open, honest, and being able to accept your partner for who they are.
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>>35080414
>But we are who we are. There's no way to change your attraction
That's a hard pill for me to swallow
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>>35062595

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fruits_of_the_noble_path

This is what you want. Practice meditation tirelessly for years and you might reach the third stage of enlightenment, Anagami, where you're no longer subject to sexual desire. It won't make you straight, but you'll stop being gay.
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>>35062595
On the same boat. Is there a way out? It's unbearable
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>>35083554
the solution would be to find yourself a same sex partner. i dont see the point in forcing yourself to be heterosexual
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>>35062595
>Is there any way to stop feeling this way permanently without castrating myself?
No.
>Serious answers only please
Still no.
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>>35083554
I'm gonna try ivermectin like >>35070368 recommended
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>>35062595
Being insecure about being gay is gayer than just being gay
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>>35086274
don't care
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>>35086279
Yes you do, you made a thread crying about how much you hate wanting to suck dick
You can't even explain why you think it's wrong
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>>35086283
I’m not going to act on my gay thoughts just because you say being insecure is “gayer”
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>>35086322
>I’m not going to act on my gay thoughts
You clearly have already, and had a shit experience, thus this thread was made
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>>35086326
Fuck you
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>>35062595
I have the same problem, i guess people will just say just be gay or whatever but it's caused me a lifetime of isolation, humiliation, emasculation, gender dysphoria and poor social adjustment. I really think this has just wasted my life. I can barely even think of myself as a man, I'm just a 3rd gender weirdo that doesn't fit in anywhere. The only sort of solution is to disengage with it but even then you can't get rid of it, just have to live with it.
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>>35062595
Stop consuming porn of all genres for as long as it takes for your mind to reorient itself. If you think of anything gay during this retention, just realize it's behind you and dismiss it.
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>>35062595
You can't force attraction to women but the gay thoughts become less if you stop paying attention to them and replace your porn addiction with some other addiction
They will never go away completely and that's okay, you can't take responsibility for your intrusive thoughts
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>>35062595
Bisexuality is based but the world hates you for it and you need to hide that.
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>>35062595
Its possible, whenever you get a crush for the same gender, just ignore it until it goes away.
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Nope. Now open your butt hole OP.
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I have the same prob OP. I don't even know if I'm gay or just ridiculously touch starved. The thoughts of having a boyfriend and being romantically and/or emotionally intimate is daunting. Like jumping in the deep end of the pool when you don't know how to swim. But the more I try to fight or solve these thoughts, the more anguish builds. Prob easier to just ignore it.
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>>35089957
Faggot...
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If you don’t want to be gay, don’t do gay shit. I think about killing dumbasses in roadrage but i don’t do it so I’m not a murderer. If i did, i would be.

Self acceptance and self excellence don’t always align. It’s pathetic when people resign themselves away to obesity because they can’t resist “intuitive eating” or alcoholism because they want to drink, regardless of the reason. We don’t say “it’s who they are” to those things, and when they allow themselves to degrade themselves it signals a lack of self love.

Your actions define you. If there’s a part of you that you want to remove, root it out. Stop watching porn to start. This life is a journey of change, go steer the ship or the wind will crash you into the rocks.
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>>35089960
I will fuck your mouth until you cry and won't even give you tissues after
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>>35062595
*teleports behind you*



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