Any Anon here married (lolz) outside of their culture ? How did it go would you recommend it ?My Mom is PISSED that im trying to do that just wonder what your takes are
>>35068469Not married but attempted to date outside my culture. It really depends if;>You find learning about other cultures beyond their superficial pop down to ideologies invigorating>If your personal values align with blanket values of the culture you're trying to date.>Both people have enough knowledge of both cultures to know if someone is doing something because of culture or just personal flaws so they're not being manipulated.>you understand you will never fully understand every nuance or minute detail of what it feels like to have grown up or be of that culture and you may have competition of the affections of people of the same culture who 'get it' more than you ever could>Both families are on board, regardless of culture having fights with family or inlaws is hell even if you're dating in the same cultureThat's not even including logistics such as international dating and citizenship and visa drama. I think unless something changes I'm probably going to keep trying to date outside my culture because I've been burnt to many times by white [spoiler]men, as a cis white female
>>35070097>I've been burnt to many times by white [spoiler]men, as a cis white femaleWhy? Asking as a mixed child of two different cultures
I guess it depends, but me having bad relationship and a big distance between me and my family made it easy to date foreigners and moving abroad from Eastern Europe. But I'm not sure it's such a thing here that your parents will judge you for marrying someone who's not local
>>35072655Cause she's an insufferable dyke
>>35070097>personal values align with blanket values of the culture you're trying to dateI would say our personal values align not sure how it is in her culture i should look that up >you understand you will never fully understand every nuance or minute detailYeahh i can see that, its very common for her and her family to get sidetrack and talk about stuff like that>competition of the affections of people of the same cultureDoubt>having fights with family or inlaws is hell I would say my family is pretty nerve racking already maybe thats a reason i want to experience something else. also i cant imagine having a fight with my in laws they are chill as hell as of now > I've been burnt to many times by white [spoiler]menI dont know how old you are but if it was actually frequent it sounds like a (you) problem ,also dont date based on skin color but personal steroetypes
>>35072655How do you feel about being mixed anon?I often wonder how my kids will feel and what struggles they will have
>>35072667Moving abroad is something ill do once my parents are both dead or else i wont hear the end of it
Married someone of different religion. We go our separate ways on that one point and meet up again for the rest of our happy lives.
>>35074647>How do you feel about being mixed anon?I have mixed feelings about it (pun intended).There's many factors in place. Personally, I think it sucks! I don't belong anywhere really. However, this only made it worse by my neurodivergency and being brought up to be a shameful overachiever. This gets sort of neutralized by me being handsome though. I wish I was around more people like me though, and I mean in terms of appearance as well as mindset. Everyone is unrelatable. Good thing is I grew up multilingual. Which may have forced me to be smarter perhaps ?Sorry I couldn't give you a cookie cutter answer.
>>35074647>i oFtEn wOnDeRDumb bitch
>>35074744No no, that was a great answer thank youIm not mixed but my family is an immigrant family and I am not respected as a native or one of them by lesser and even close family sometimes... I think i know how you can feel from time to time Good luck on finding someone who can deeply connect with
>>35074765Okay
>My Mom is PISSED that im tryingOkay. Arrange a marriage for me.My own mother can't do it.
>>35077034Thank you
>>35068469Your mom is a weirdo. And you’re weird for caring about what she thinks regarding who you marry.
>>35077288Uhhh I know lots of young guys in similiar situations if you have to take things into your own hand i would recommend reconnecting with older classmates or in general people from your past life Eventually people will know you for that and start reconnecting with you>>35078036I wont blow the marriage of because of that ! I just want to gather information!
