Is sex just not very good?I've had sex like a dozen times now, once with a prostitute and then with a girl I'm seeing.I only just got into the dating scene at 29...My girl seems to always want it, I'm horny as shit too, but I'm never fully satisfied.It's not like when I jerk off and paint the room white, I "cum" and it's like -ah-, and within a few minutes I need to go again but she's already done...So I just end up horny 24/7 if I don't jerk off.It sucks.
>>35070754Almost everything in life is about sex or the absolution of sex from one's life by pursuing higher things. Sex is about power, not pleasure. Jerking off is about pleasure.
So your refractory period is minutes long for sex? The hell's so exciting?
>>35070754So have her blow you to completion first, and don't fuck until you're ready to go again?
>>35070754Sex with the right person is astounding, but you are clearly the wrong person.
I know what you mean, OP. I am female and sex itself doesn't do much for me. I'm frustrated I can't ejaculate like a man. Certain kinks are enjoyable but regular ol' straightlace sex feels like a chore most of the time. I haven't "made love" in over a decade, though. Just random encounters here and there.
>>35070754How circumcised are you?
>>35070754Only been with prostitutes, but been with a lot. If you have a specific kink, then that's what you need to satisfy. Same goes for the caliber of woman you're after. Any compromise in either territory will leave you craving for more, but the right thing from the right woman can have me satisfied for weeks.
>>35070754What do you expect from sex exactly?Fucking the same woman does get old quickly, that's normal. Nothing beats conquering a new woman, getting a taste of her pussy for the first time, inserting your hard cock in her vagina when it still feels kind of wrong and new unexplored territory. "Holy fuck I met this woman and now she's allowing me to see her naked and fuck her pussy holy shit!".Sometimes I cum first and have to watch my girlfriend flick her bean until she cums, and she gets off on me looking at her pussy while she does it.Honestly, in those moments it's like I can see the matrix. Looking at my cum leaking from her vagina is kind of disgusting, and the room smells of sweat, cum and her vaginal secretions. Is this really why wars are fought and men suffer? It's so silly.Sometimes she gets wet and wants to fuck but I just ate and I saw her naked the whole weekend and can barely get hard, but still have to fuck her because she wants it.Also, fucking a prostitute is mid at best, most times it's glorified masturbation.
>>35070754>Does sex just suck?Not just, but it's nice when sucking is included
>>35071461Yep. This is why im pretty much confident that I can't be in a relationship. Not only would I get bored but it's like you said, shit loses appeal. With my ex, I used to be able to cut diamonds looking at her nudes when I was trying to smash for the first time. Fast forward and she slept half nude around me and I felt nothing. Eventually sex with her became a chore I no longer felt like engaging with. The first time we had car sex vs the last was like night and day, I was so bored and turned off I was secretly wishing we would get caught so it could end faster. It sucks I lost the ability to pair bond but it is what it is. I can get ass twice, maybe three times, from the same chick before I start looking elsewhere to keep up the thrill.
>>35074798>It sucks I lost the ability to pair bondWhat makes you think you ever had it in the first place?
>>35074800Probably because I actually gave a fuck to try? It's not rocket science. At one point I had the gumption to try and properly date and court a woman for long term relations. That is essentially dead in me now to the point I dont even want to entertain the idea. Im pretty sure most if not all humans are born with the want to pair bond until its squeezed out of them
