How do you tell if a woman actually wants to date you and isn't just looking for attention or some other bullshit women do?
>>35070893Well Shibuya Kaho is a fucking porn star, so I feel like it doesn't matter what her ulterior motives are, if any, they ultimately end in a good time for you.
>>35070893If she tries to make plans with you instead of just agreeing to your plans, she is actually interested in you.
>>35070893You ask her out.
>>35070893I honestly dunno dude
>>35071020this>>35070893she probably doesn't even know herself until you try and she has to make a decision
>>35070893If she does want to date you, then your confidence level is fucking you already.Pretty much the effective definition of confidence is living on the assumption that the thing will go well rather than living on the assumption that things are weird and shitty. You’re doing the second one.
>>35071663Not OP. But I'm aware of this. She has all but spelled it out for me. I'm doing the second thing too, but not-not doing the first thing.I did this >>35071020 over text because this >>35070907 did not happen. Yesterday, she agreed to meet with me on tomorrow. I sent details and a few other messages that were probably unnecessary. No reply.I already resolved not to double confirm or send messages at all for now. Just ride out the 'confidence' I guess. I can't say now if she'll show up or not.
>>35070893I hate women so much
>>35071847Nope. No sign of her tonight.>>35073277Fuck it. Me too
>>35070893by asking this question, you should already knowif a woman is on the fence, the relationship is likely to be weakshe has to adore you and of she does, shell be reaching out>quick replies>won't hesitate when you sent goodnight kiss emojis>has that look on her eyes>asks you questions about yourself >wants to be seen on public together
Hey BaBe ! !i got my eyes on you...
I say watch the movie obsession and look at the difference in how the 2 girls treat the main character. Sarah is a good example of how girls act when they like you. Pre wish Nikki is how they act when they don't or see you as a last resort.
>>35076949She wrote me back today>How was [the thing] last night?So what now boys? Am I still in the game?
>>35071663The assumption you're talking about is based on previously accumulated data. It's not really "confidence" when a quadriplegic man with a micro penis thinks he's gonna find a 9/10 billionaire girlfriend who's gonna take care of him. It's called DELUSION.Confidence is dictated by your previous experiences. It's your brain giving you a probability of the outcome. If you've been rejected 20 times out of 20 in the past, then the odds are you're gonna be rejected again. You can't just puff your chest like a retard and think "positive thinking" will magically change the outcome of a statistically unfavourable situation.
>>35078849And here we are...Sorry to hijack thread but I'm literally trying to figure out the same thing as OP. Is she just sapping attention from me or is she willing to date? Is there a difference?
>>35078937Yellow bubble likes green bubbleGreen bubble is being a faggot
Yes I am being a faggot. We met the last time I was in town and it was amazing. I'm back again for a limited time and she's been a ghost. She said with clarity we are not together and since we're not fucking, there are no benefits. So now I'm just friend zone? I don't wanna be friend zone. I wanna be taken seriously.
>>35078937>The trees have been so beautifulWhat kind of race is she? Are you a sexpat?
>>35078937She's into you faggotHoly shit you're all autistic.If youre not sure then ask her out on a date and if she says no then just move tf on
>>35080066We're both amerimutts. She's talking about fall leaf colors.>>35080174Idk I just think she's fucking with me. Already asked her out and she said yes but did not show up yesterday. Sounds like she wants to set something up last minute before I leave and I'm not happy about that. I'm honestly butthurt she played keepaway this whole time. Kinda ruined my trip. "Do you want me to leave you alone" sounds insidiously sarcastic coming from someone who has evaded me all week. I couldn't even respond to that bait. She's trolling.
