So, yesterday was my birthday, and i have this group of "friends" since 2018, the group today is just a shell of its former self, one of the guys just kept making servers with the same friends - the people he didnt like, last week the fucker created a private voice channel and only like 5 people were able to join in and see, yesterday they didnt even wished my happy birthday, they were online, they were chatting somewhere i dont have access. should i just move on from these fuckers?also the guy that keeps making shit channels for fewer and fewer people loves to talk shit behind everyones back.
>>35072125If you've not met irl it holds no value unless you're that wheelchair bound guy in Norway who was immortalized in WOW due to a rare genetic defect .
I was in both your positions. From your perspective these guys mean the world to you and you wanna hang with them. From his perspective your friendship is tied to whatever game or fandom you met at and you kept joining and annoying his other group of friends that wanna stay on topic. You can leave if you want, it's not gonna matter to him because he's probably moved on from wherever your friendship started from. That's not a fault to you really that's just growing up. People just keep changing. Even irl friendships are rife with these issues. You do deserve to be around people who'll respect you but before you say fuck them and cut all ties honestly ask yourself if you can handle the isolation and if you can learn to be happy by yourself. I've left my own close friend group after realizing we all changed and I'm happier by my self with my small group of personal friends. Happy birthday btw, anon.
>>35072125asking the internet for advice is like asking the mirror.you will get your own thoughts repeated.if you think it is a good time to change sites and check out a new life, do it.your friends determine who you are.try hippie. many who run away from themselves in order to find purpose.you can try other modalities, too. something that forces you to smartly improvise on life itself. set yourself challanges and then act on them.i had these challenges. really improves confidence "Sell street art in Lisbon", "Go to Porto", "Meditate in a Moroccan cave, Atlas mountains".And be open for the weirdest things to try.Someone liked my trousers. So we agreed on exchanging each others' trousers (on a train!).Hippies are great. gives you a lable. and with a tent you are technically not homeless.>>35077102>Happy birthday btw, anonalso this, after reading
