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I feel like I am genuinely developing some kind of internalised misandry. Zoomer women are always so casually shitting on men, any small error and you're a creep and a pervert and you should die and have your career ruined. I try my best to be a good person, generally, but it feels like it doesn't matter because I have balls and I'll always be the oppressor and the cause of all sorow. It makes me very bitter.
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>>35073604
The key is to never get too famous. If your life gets ruined then you can just move somewhere else or join another social group. Obviously it's best not to make mistakes in the first place, but not everyone is going to succeed and make the right decisions in every circumstance.
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>>35073604
Despite what people online and on 4chan will tell you, this is not how all women are and you're seeing shitty loud voices that are getting amplified by algorithms designed around engagement and ragebait.
Not that these women don't exist at all, they absolutely do and a not-insignificant amount, but a majority are not like that and the ones that are aren't worth pursuing anyway.
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>>35073639
I'm talking more about my internal seething and weird guilty uncomfortable feeling around women. They don't single me out specifically, nothing is happening, but just the constant casual bashing of men kinda freaks me out because you know I'm a man. Maybe being a virgin and also a sexually dysfunctional degenerate doesn't help.
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>>35073655
Nah zoomer girl talk about men bad all the time irl.
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>>35073678
Like I said it's not an insignificant amount. But it also depends heavily on where you live. I used to live in a leftist west coast state and that kind of "men bad" mentality is extremely prevalent among women, but I've since moved to the South and generally the women don't have that mentality as often.
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>>35073672
Just ignore it and keep lifting. People will always talk shit but you cannot let it affect your self-image.
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>>35073604
Sounds exhausting
When you notice bitterness creeping in, it can sometimes help to step back from those specific spaces—whether they are certain online platforms or specific social circles—where that rhetoric thrives. Grounding yourself in real-world, face-to-face interactions with people who see you for who you are, can be a vital circuit breaker for that kind of exhaustion.
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>>35073695
I'm not lifting shit
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>>35073604
women need to be dominated, not catered to. otherwise, western civilization falls.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=FgxacX72snA&ra=m
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>>35073747
how’s that working for you in your own life?
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>>35073672
You have to understand the culture you're living in isn't friendly towards male/female friendships. You yourself exemplify it to a degree by signaling that women are an other. Being too sensitive works against you.
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>>35073714
There's your problem. You are a soiboy. Come with me, if you want to lift.
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>>35073655
In college there are many who absolutely are like that, unfortunately. They judge and talk shit about everyone.
But like you said, I don't think the majority are like that, just the loud minority, and they do get pretty loud.
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>>35073604
Stop being a "good" person you will put all the women out of business if there is nobody to complain about, and they will complain anyway if you are "good".
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>>35073604
Honestly I know it’s a cliche at this point but get off social media and start having the courage to actively form and regulate your own beliefs and opinions free from fear or fixation on what other people want you to think. Live for yourself and you’ll sort of that.
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>>35073604
It is called cognitive dissonance when reality clashes with what you want to believe. Sorry to hear that’s happening to you.
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Have at least 1 platonic friendship with a woman so you will start seeing them as people.
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>>35073604
Stop thinking you’re a good person because you’re not. And that’s why they shit on you.
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>>35073604
Get off social media and talk with women irl. Im a zoomer and most zoomer girls i met were nice to me. Girls i dated were one of nicest people i met in my life. Loving me despite my flaws. There are dumb broads and its same as dumb males. Anyone judging someone on something they cant control and not character is retarded and shouldnt be taking serious to begin with
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Develop a subtle chauvinism that you keep up your sleeve. Not enough to tarnish your image around women, but to insulate your ego from the relentless misandry
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>>35078027
LMFAO
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>>35073604
You take women way too seriously.



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